Why cant some guys see why they cant get laid?

Does anyone else feel as though this post is patronizing?

Whilst you bring up some valid points you are generalising here. And I had to laugh when you said women don’t like arrogance, Ive lived on the planet 35 years and noticed the exact opposite the whole time.

Iron your shirt and say "Please and thank you" and you get sex.
- This guy.

It's really not as simple as that. Infact this whole subject tends to come across as patronizing a lot of the time it's brought up. No, you're not going to get sex by ironing your shirt and being nice, women know this and try to convince men of this as if men are newbies in the world and don't have experience living in it.
I often have to laugh when women bring up this subject as they really don't understand the difference in what's required for men and women to get laid and they do this really patronizing speech where they pretend that women have 0% of shallow preferences.

The truth is, it's not that simple, not impossible (obvs) but not that simple. If you're not a good lookin' guy then you're gonna have a bad time, you're going to have to work far more than any average man, attractive man, or woman does in order to compensate for a shovel face, such as working out and changing your personality to be more humorous and engaging, you also need to lower your expectation on getting some super attractive lady sleeping with you. An important one is that it's trial and error, don't give up on getting laid just because you were rejected once, twice, three times, etc.

Personally never had these issues myself but I sympathize with the folk that can't get laid. Don't ever think you're bad for wanting to get laid and should stop trying but definitely don't let it be the only thing on your to-do list, that would just be torture.

"Be respectful. This is most important of all." Man, this sort of thing annoys me. People using the phrase "be respectful" interchangably with "be polite." These do not mean the same thing. Rspect must be earned. If you claim you're an apache attack helicoptor un-ironically without roleplaying, you don't deserve my respect. If you want to go stick a thumb tack on someone's chair, you'll have no respeect from me about things involving that "prank." Politeness, on the other hand, is far easier to earn than respect. Murderers, for example, don't deserve either. Politeness is simply common courtesy, while respect is something one must truly feel the other deserves. Just because you don't respect someone doesn't mean you shouldn't be polite to them. Just because you're polite to someone doesn't mean you have any respect for them.

DANGER: FRIEND ZONE. Your advice is the perfect recipe for the dreaded friend zone. Of course, if you are attractive, she will exempt you and you will soon find yourself in bed with her.

Historically men didn't always get laid. Only the survivors of battles were able to procreate. There is a current culture of entitlement and participation -equals- worthy that leads a bunch of dog shit men to think they are special.

Anyone who just wants to be with someone for sex is probably gonna get some disliking for that, people really be out here nowadays trying to find the one they wanna spend the rest of their lives with and perverts only aim for the one thing with them of course they'll get rejected if someone's looking for more than a quick fuck

"Clothes dont have to be expensive but clean and straight"

As opposed to dirty gay clothing, I assume.

Like the 40% statistic too. You have a scientific survey to support that number, or is it made up just as 63.27% of statistics you see in IIN posts are?

Good advice for men.

I agree that a lot of guys do stupid shit that stops them getting laid, but a lot of the rules you've laid out certainly wouldn't help you get laid. A lot of women think they want one thing but then want another.

I know guys with great game, and they don't follow those rules. Also, the most times I've got shagged I've brought up sex first. Most women like a confident guy who will make the first move; and not some meek guy who has a rule about not bringing up sex.

I agree with a lot of your points except for the "let the woman bring up sex first". I prefer when the man brings in up to me first bc I'm way too much of a pussy too ask about it to begin with. You have to push me into it in order to make me feel comfortable talking about it.

Some of us do try. It's just that this society is making guys out like we are all bad eggs.

Having manners, and hygiene, is always a good idea.
I don't think this post is patronizing. I think it's common sense.

A LOT of guys (some on here) complainf they don't "get laid", and when you read their comments, and how they think about women, it's fairly easy to understand why.

Any woman who would fuck these cavemen, is either a hooker, or has a low opinion, of herself.