Why cant i simply find a female to date?

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F here and I want to know why my younger sister finds it easy to date and she has only been seeing this guy for few weeks now and already been buying her things and always wants to hang with her, yet I had 0 dates nor relationships. I been on all the dating sites in the world including the lez ones. I even put myself out there out of my comfort zone and went to a lez night club. I joined LGBT Facebook groups and met up with people at activities they organize. The only lass I like is 31 and engaged. Met her once but by far shes the most attractive and sweet, soft personality I have met. No one else is my type at these meet ups at all. I really am frustrated tbh. Why does my younger sister get it so easy? I never had a valentine date or gift :/

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  • litelander8
    5 years ago

    She might just be easy. And it's ok for you to not be.

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  • leggs91200
    5 years ago

    There is little rhyme or reason for who gets with who or why some people have good luck dating but some do not. How many times have we heard, "Why is he/she dating THAT?"

    Well like my room mate, she likes women but seems to struggle in the dating scene. She is on the large side but shoot so are a lot of lesbians. But she actually looks like a woman instead of some man with tits.

    Yet, my room mate's last girlfriend is some scary bull-dyke chick who hates showering and you would be afraid to be in prison with. Yet, she seems to have no problems dating.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Wow that's fucking weird!! I'm slender and femme so I doubt it's how I look

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  • Ummitsstillme
    5 years ago

    Guys have dicks and balls and are way hornier than chicks. Your sister is fucking with men. We're easy af lol.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      I know yall too easy peasy and desperate af, I dont want desperate or dick and balls. At least when I do find a nice female, it will be more heart than genitals

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Life's hard.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Yup

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Because you fucking suck.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Stevie wonder

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  • selth
    5 years ago

    The fact you use "female" already tells me enough. If you're meeting women just to have a girlfriend, they will realize that and move on.

    People want to date people who appreciate them for who they are

    not people who just want a boyfriend/girlfriend

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      No, I dont go telling everyone I want a "gf" or whatever. I just asked some random LGBT people how are you meant to find one. No harm done imo as I'm new

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    5 years ago

    You can either keep searching, or just do what a lot of people do: try it out with people who are not your type in hopes that you'll eventually like them.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      I guess I keep searching

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Probably keep searching

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  • TheBlindInquisitor
    5 years ago

    I wouldn't know what to say to this maybe it's your personality as in you might be shy/reserved or maybe people do want you but don't know how to approach you or maybe it's long list of other things either way I don't know to properly comment.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Hmmk fair enough of an answer thank u

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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
    5 years ago

    Its hard to say. I dont know what you look like and I don't know what your personality is like.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Hmm fair enough

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