Why cant i cum?

OK, I've been with 3 guys so far and for some reason none of them can make me cum. I've had one go down on me and i still can't. I've tried a couple of different positions but still can't cum. when I'm alone and i finger myself i can but when i'm with a guy i can't. Is there a reason for this. my friend thinks its because i cant trust a guy. when i was younger i was rapped maybe its because i don't feel comfortable. i don't know but if you can help me i would really appreciate it. thanks

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Comments ( 6 )
  • Carlton03

    Damn sorry to hear about what happened to you when you were younger :-( hope the rotten prick is in jail or dead

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  • YumeNeko

    the only way to solve is to actually relax, try to forget about that i know is hard but its possible!

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  • Sinsector

    Don't think about it, just feel it.

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  • Passionate

    relax ... you will get there eventually .... just dont feel pressured... thats the worst

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  • Hippeh

    Being raped as a youngster would most definately effect your trust towards men sexually.

    The best chance you have is guide your partner through what you'd usually do to achieve climax, either by using his penis for g-spot stimulation and his hands for clitoral stimulation, or some variation, whatever floats your boat.

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  • qwertyu

    Trust me I can make you cum honey. I can make your hot little pussy cum so hard you wont know what hit you. I love pleasing women more than anything in life. I love hearing them scream with pleasure when I bring them to a powerfull orgasm.

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