Why can't i get a boyfriend?

so i'm 18 almost 19 and i still haven't ever had a boyfriend. i've always had little flings with guys but i never really felt like i truly liked them. i'm just worried that i'll never find anyone that i truly want to be with for the long term. it is normal to feel this way? and if it is, i would really appreciate some back-up advice. :)

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  • LOUi_CUDi

    it normal to feel that way. Just wait u will find some1 eventually every1 those.

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    • IrishPotato

      I was going to comment this, but then I saw your comment (:

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  • maddog546

    If youre FAT,UGLY and/or STUPID..(sighs at this).....well,then just THINK.

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    • Nice!

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  • Mason554

    You just need to wait I had my first gf at 20 20!!!! But she loves me I love her she's a supermodel holy crap I got a supermodel!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • sexualnormal

    Its normal,but the guy has to come after you haha. Just make eye contact with guys who look like suitable mates. Maybe twirl your hair or something. If the look away then they are weak you need an alpha male, or go after a guy who has trouble getting girls that way he will never leave you.

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  • keeping_up_with_da_kids

    You might not be attractive!

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  • syd7839

    i've had quite a few boyfriend, but very short term. honestly, my cousin told me to wait, it's better to save your heart for someone that deserves it. and yes it's normal, because you might just not feel connected to that person. like my aunt, she just doesn't click with any guys, she's had boyfriends and one fiance. but some people just don't get married.. and that's okay too! marrying isn't for some! but i hope you find someone that truly loves you! & if you stop looking for him, he'll come to you faster.

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  • Darkoil

    ^^ If i start believing this i wonder if il get cluster fucked/gang raped by a horde of women when i walk out of my front door tomorrow.

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  • F34RTH3HUNT3R

    Yes, It is normal. Don't ever think that you won't find one. Believing that you will find somebody will lead you to him. It was the same for me except that I'm a guy. I used to think that I would never find that special someone. By thinking this, girls would walk away from me. Until I believed that I would find one. Sometime the next day all these women just threw themselves at me. But it was the one of the quiet and shy ones that I noticed.

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  • KokoroComplex

    Join the club. I've never had a boyfriend, not even little flings and we're about the same age. I have the same problem, too because I want that older romantic male figure (I tend to go for guys that are 19-21/22). But, I'm kind of a hypocrite at this, because while I want a boyfriend, there's this guy (DENYING) that I heard say, "ahh, I want a girlfriend" and I just think, "you don't need a girlfriend..."

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