Why can't i get a boyfriend?
Im a pretty girl and im not just saying that. But i have all these guys sayin they would "do me" but wont date me. Why?
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Im a pretty girl and im not just saying that. But i have all these guys sayin they would "do me" but wont date me. Why?
If you have a nice body, people want to fuck you. If you have a nice mind and personality, people want to date you. Judging by your first comment on your beauty, I'm not sure you have the latter of the two. The very fact that boys are telling you that they'd do you but not date you is weird and tells me they think nothing of your feelings or personality, just how you look and that you're easy. And this tells me you're the kind of girl that facilitates this behaviour.
Work on yourself and forget about being shallow. Then you'll get a nice guy.
Sex and love differ so much.Today sex is available in every corner of the world but its harder to find that special one whom you want to be with cause dating doesnt mean sex.All that sayings about men that they are only interested in sex are wrong.They are human beings who need to be loved,cared,appreciated and understood.Maybe you are beautiful yes and you are so proud of your beauty that think you are the center of the world maybe not but one thing is obvious do the once who have sexy who have sexy body but later date and marry the once who have more than body.Try to be interesting and clever woman
do you flirt a lot? are you high maintenance? its hard to say without a little bit more information about you. but i think just from the short sentence that you are so up yourself, no guy wants to be with a chick who always has to check their hair, redo their makeup etc etc.
Because you're under 18. No guy is serious at that age.
Guys never really said that to my face, but they definitely made the same thing apparent to me before, absolutely.
Or perhaps, they dislike your personality. Not saying you're unlikeable, but maybe that's how they honestly feel. Maybe you have a bad reputation and they aren't interested.
It could be a number of things, but it's kinda common.
Sounds like they want you for sex and not love, sad how girls are looked at as sex toys.
I get intimidated when a girl is too hot! I think if you want a nice guy tone it down so he believes he has a chance and show that you want nice guys with your personality, then bam go back to being super hot after you got a nice guy. Believe me he's gonna appreciate that haha. The way you dress is super important and tells a lot about you too. I think most nice guys want good girls but "bad" ass guys want to bang good girls bad girls holes in the ground or just anything that moves really.
That's the bane of pretty girls all over the world. Most of the time, they're only wanted because of their looks, and men just want to have sex with you.
Clearly, you're attracting the wrong kind of person. Maybe you should tone down your attractiveness by dressing more conservatively and normal. Stop being so sexy.
That way, at least you might be able to get rid of all those unwanted attention, and also be able to find someone more suitable for you, someone who would want you for more than your looks alone.
I think you need to elaborate. Your post is so short. Maybe it's exactly because you're pretty that people don't date you, because the really nice guys will feel very intimidated by you and the ones who date you are jerks who just wanna do you.
Or maybe because there's something about you that scares off boys (no disrespect meant).
Or maybe you're super shy.
So? Which one is it?
Meet new guys. Big date sites helps a lot. I found my wife in chatter like "skype". It works.
You have to first have respect for yourself for someone else to respect you.
This doesn't have to do with your looks, it has to do with the crowd you hang out with.
Get some new friends, ones that see you more for your thoughts than for your looks.
Maybe ur just a "doable" kind of gal, no sweat, someone will want u soon dear :)