Why are many girls mean to each other/some girls?

Why are many girls mean to each other or only to some girls ?

Because they are jealous from those who they are mean to 18
Because they are girls 14
Because they have issues 4
Because they have self-esteem and confidennce issues 15
Because they have personality disorder/s 0
Because girls are catty 5
Because it's a social thing , to be mean means you are powerful 11
Because it's a power game thing 9
I'm a guy and wish to know why 8
I'm a girl and a nice person 9
I don't know 3
When they are mean to some girls they think they r better then them 8
It's kinda like high school were cool girls are mean 3
Because they are ugly 0
Because they are very pretty 2
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Comments ( 19 )
  • bananaface

    I'm never directly mean to a person, unless they've pissed me off.

    I do bitch to my friends about other girls sometimes though. And that's not just a girl thing these days, the amount of bitchy boys I know is beyond a joke:L!

    Never because I'm jealous though, usually when I'm jealous I just wallow in self-pity:P

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  • jussayin

    It depends on the girl. You can't make blanket statements about either gender. However, jealousy is usually the reason. I am a girl & have girl friends. We consider ourselves nice, then again, I agree with the statement that all girls have a bitchy side. There are in fact girls i'm jealous of (would like to be as pretty as, d8ing someone i like).

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  • equanimity

    To establish a pecking-order. Even men do this, just in a different way.

    People are not going to stop being "mean", so it's best to develop coping skills to deal with them when they are. Don't act like prey.

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  • wigsplitz

    Most of the time jealousy, and then some of the time when it's someone you know on a more personal level it can be more a mystery as to what 'she' has that I don't have (like when a bf/husband cheats), when it's obvious she's either ugly, overweight, has problems (like drug addiction, financial, etc..), so not so much jealousy but "why"?? In no way would I be jealous of these things, I think it's just a matter of convenience for the guy. Like she's a slut and made herself available but isn't desireable, and even the male involved knows it's a mistake but just a place to get a nut off. Nothing to be jealous about, more a wake -up call to either dump him or look inward as to why he's looking at some undesireable creature for attention.

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  • Jealousy. Insecurity. They're just a naturally nasty person. They want you to feel as bad as they feel. They want don't want you to have the attention. They want to be the alpha female.

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  • Whyamievenhereohthatsit

    It's cause some girls are never taught how to behave.

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  • I think it is because of competition, at least that's what I've observed in high school. It seems that all the girls are competing for the attention of one guy and whoever looks the prettiest is usually hated by the other girls. This hate is done out of jealousy. Personally, I think it's immature and stupid, but that's high school apparently.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    "Because they are jealous OF those who they are mean to"

    Fixed it for you.

    But yeah. some girls are mean because of jealousy. The other girl has something they want - intelligence, attention, a boyfriend, looks

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  • Stern_rules

    To anyone who answered 'I'm a girl and a nice person' you're a cunt

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  • SoccerStud88

    they are jealous of them. and they are intimidated by them.

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  • Laufy

    I have no idea. But it is hilarious.

    It's not enough that for thousands of years women were treated as unthinking non-entities ; no, women themselves must also degrade and fight each other.

    ROFL LMAO HAHAHA HOHOHOHO HEHEHEHE

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    • Um men do the same thing. "fag" "pussy" calling other men that degrading themself BAHAHAHAHAHAHA

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  • Most of the above.

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  • 53739

    Lol I have always wondered the same thing actually.

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  • tehfoxyfire

    I've been wondering this actually. At work the girls are mean for no reason. No reason at all. They stare at me and I could feel them talking about me amongst themselves. What annoys,me most is that they constantly stare:/

    Females seem to have this social hierarchy where they....ah fuck it you get my point girls can be catty bitches especially when there's a guy involved

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  • Christi

    jealousy, jealousy, jealousy and jealousy

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  • sweetkisses4u

    because they are idiotic bitches who think they can intimitadate others girls by their insecqurites its ridiculous really....

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  • Sweetz

    ...because they're immature, Its stupid.

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  • bobballena

    you should put some thought into what information you are trying to obtain from a survey,

    first of all i have noticed that you put 15 possable answers to your questions if you use mutible surveys where there is either one extreme and another such as (women are conserned about their looks or about their intelligence) and use mutible surveys that overlap like (women are concerned about their intellengce or about their motery status) you can set a higherarchle list of to see a true bar graph of what people think womens problems are

    you are an embarssiment

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