Why am i weird?

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I'm shy, and I've never been with any lad... I've been on dates but nothings ever happened. I feel stupid. It's not natural. I should be out dating? I was waiting until I met someone I liked though...

Because I've never had a boyfriend and never really go out I find it hard to confind in my mum and sister, even though they want me too. Like going to events I find hard and they ask if I like it I said yes even though I don't.... My sister always tries to talk about boys to me.. But I feel so horrible cause it should be me the older one asking her. 21 and no boyfriend.. How pathetic am I.

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  • slings_and_arrows
    8 years ago

    It is natural that nothing has happened on these dates, because it just didn't feel right and thats how it often is, if people are honest. Dates are quite forced and unnatural in themselves and a lot of people say this, even I've heard famous celebrities like mariah carey and ralph fiennes saying this and they tend to be super confident people. So its not that your stupid or not confident, but dating is a bit unromantic and forced to many people. When you're least expecting it and not thinking about it, you'll meet a lovely person who you can say anything to and it will just feel right. That's been my experience anyway.

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    • green_boogers
      8 years ago

      You just made me smile inside.

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  • Freedom_
    8 years ago

    You don't have to compete with anyone, date at your own pace. There's nothing wrong with that.

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  • NathanScott
    8 years ago

    I'm i the only one turned on by this 'fight' between vitogenovese,ellenna and howamintomyself.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    You're not weird, perfectly normal to not want to go on dates with people you don't like.

    If you want to get out more & meet compatible people, find a group with the same interests or hobbies as you - your local library or community centre would be a good place to start

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  • Aries
    8 years ago

    No rush at all , you will meet someone that feels right some day and it will all be worth the wait :D

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