Why am i so obssesed with my boyfriend?

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I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now & I feel like I'm super obssesed with him. I hate it! We see each other pretty much everyday, but if something comes up and I can't see him I get depressed. I want to talk to him all day, he has a job as a carpenter so he gets busy but I still get upset when he doesn't text me back right away. I think about him constantly, I would do anything for him. I put him before anyone including myself and I don't want to be this way anymore. I'm so inlove with him & I can't help it. I'm not sure if he loves me as much as I love him. How can I stopped being so obssesed? How do I even know if he loves me? I need help!!

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    It's nice that you care about him so much, but you need to chill out.
    Find ways to have fun when he's not around so that you can still take care of yourself in the times when you can't be together.

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  • SlightlyConfusedGirl
    11 years ago

    I went through the same issue with my boyfriend when he moved away and now we are in a long distance relationship. I felt like I was completely obsessed with him. I told him how I felt and he is good with understanding me because he reads a relationship book about understanding the opposite sex. Your boyfriend might do a big thing for you that he is saying " I love you ", with but not do another action like this for weeks. Let him know you need the little things all day. If he starts to text you first and sweetly once or twice a day you will see the differance it makes. Its not that he dont care its he has a differant way of showing you.

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    • plum6
      11 years ago

      I totally agree, and this seems to be a relatively common problem mentioned on this website, especially regarding long distance relationships like you said. I think it's cute when a girl feels like that but just try to keep yourself from trying to control him and checking up on whatever he does, eventually this will lead to conflict in the relationship! Just remember that he loves you, but that for a relationship to work you both need to be your own person!

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    Have you been cheated on or hurt in the past? That's what this sounds like to me. You have to remember that every guy is not the same.

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  • SharP
    11 years ago

    Because you don't have a life.

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  • DumbAss34
    11 years ago

    I agree with GuessWho. But you could also try and go a week with out seeing each other, pratice ways to keep him off of your mind and keep yourself busy. you could also try smoking marijuana it will calm you down and make you more care free. im not saying smoke every day but maybe 2 times a week or something like that it will help :)

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