Why am i so obsessed with my boyfriend?

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I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend almost two years and we hardly fight. We love each other and rarely have problems. Although I've always been a little on the clingy side and I've improved a lot since I was young. I feel that because my boyfriend is so independent it's hard for him to understand how I feel. At time I often feel alone because he's away during the week and I only see him weekends. I reply to his text messages very fast because I always carry my phone on me, and I'm always thinking about him during the day. I'm just wondering, is it normal for me to be this obssessive? And how could I improve on my clingy-ness and become more independent?

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  • xloverobsessed
    13 years ago

    I think it's normal it's deffinitly a girl thing well mostly ....we'll how old r u

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  • whatshisname
    13 years ago

    When you really love someone and you're passionate, is hard to only see them on "weekends". If you were living together, it would be a lot different. I don't think this is "too clingy" what you described, just maybe for him because a) he's independent and b) you aren't getting to see him enough for as much as you love him.

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  • chezycheze
    13 years ago

    I assume you told him about this but I think its normal. I am pretty sure I would do the exact same thing as you if I had a gf. I prefer to spend my time thinking about others than the work I have to get done.

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  • jensapa
    13 years ago

    U prob have more spare time then him, therefor more time to think about him. If u got a hobby or played a sport etc maybe u could be a bit less clingy.

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  • rukii
    13 years ago

    I wish my x learned from u guys :/ I'm like u guys but I'm a guy

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  • maddie123
    13 years ago

    You can't. It's a girl thing. My boy is just as independent lol I always reply bask as fast as I can because I believe we will get to text more when in reality he replies when he feels like it. But like mine says, you don't have to talk or be together 24/7 to be a couple and love each other

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