Why am i mad that the guy i broke up with hasn't called me?

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I met this guy 4 months ago and we started dating. After the first date he let me know he was basically broke and his business was struggling. I felt sorry for him so I started paying for everything for him and his daughter.He has never paid for anything since. He didn't even get me a card for my birthday. Then recently he went with 3 of his buddies and 3 girls on a rafting trip. He says they were old ladies and I should trust him. I am hurt cause he hasn't invited me to do anything like that with him because I told him I couldn't keep paying for everything. I got upset with him and told him I wanted to "cool the relationship" for now. Two weeks later and I haven't heard a word from him. Why am I so angry that I didn't mean enough for him to miss me or us?

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  • callb4ucome
    11 years ago

    Leave him alone sounds like a jerk... Time will heal all wounds..... The fact that he's allowing u to pay for things shows he's not a upright man

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  • ladymantoloveyoulongtime
    13 years ago

    he definitely used you and because you arent going to be paying for his stuff anymore, he doesnt want to be with you. his "poor me" story has obviously worked a lot for ladies to keep falling for it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Nice job... Now when will you be paying my rent??

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    • Marie4reel
      13 years ago

      Now that was pretty "heartless." I guess I could explain that I have had 6 heart surgeries and have a very limited out come if you will. So stupid not exactly maybe praying that someone would really care about you when you are ill. And no I never paid for his rent.

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  • koifish
    13 years ago

    Sounds like the typical asshole.

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  • Sog
    10 years ago

    He must have had a huge

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  • dom180
    12 years ago

    You broke up with him. If you didn't want him to go, you shouldn't have done it. He's probably just trying to get over you. Call him yourself if you regret it.

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  • NCman89
    13 years ago

    Yes it is normal but you shouldn't be worrying about him. My mother is currently working almost 7 days a week shes an accountant but my stepdad does siding so even when he isn't working all the time because of a slow time like winter i still get pissed and say shit all the time to him I'm 21 and have had a job since I was 14 so I really can't stand people who just live off of other people find someone to pay for your things like a real man would

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  • onlybarno
    13 years ago

    Yes, of course it's normal. You don't want him not to care that you broke up with him. However, you need to push through the sadness and forget about this guy. Find someone who treats you well, or enjoy being alone for a while. Don't settle for a jerk.

    And good luck with your illness.

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  • billyhatcher
    13 years ago

    i would imagine he ''hooked'' up with one of his 3 girls to pay his bills he doesnt care for you find some one better

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  • lilBlondeQTpie
    13 years ago

    Cuz you want him to show you that your worth fighting for. but you can do better, find someone who will bring home the bacon and meet you half way. The girl shouldn't be doing all the work, I know from expeiriance hun and it aint worth it, you'll only end up feeling used and depressed. Good luck! (:

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  • jasonapple
    13 years ago

    Your intentions are good but he only wanted you for your money and now you won't pay for things he doesn't want anything to do with you. Don't take it personally, you're still a good person, and there's no point blaming him. Just find someone who is financially independent. I know a girl who went out with a guy for two years and he lived in her house and didn't get a job, not that I have an issue with unemployed people, it's just she didn't have much money either, and then he strangled her (not to death) and she stayed with him thinking that he would get a job. He's not going to change, so just leave it :-)

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  • Jen118584
    13 years ago

    Well, that was foolish, wasn't it?

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  • Echoes
    13 years ago

    Very simple, he found another woman to pay his bills. By the way I like BMW.

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