Why am i like this?

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I posted about it before, so I apologize in advance.

Being shy and introverted, I've never been in a relationship; About a month ago, for the first time in my life, I asked a lady I fancy for her number. We chatted and spoke for about three weeks and everything seemed to click so well, but then, after agreeing to meet up, she canceled 20 min ahead saying she doesn't think she's ready for a relationship atm. I know it's stupid, cause we barely started, but I stil feel so bummed about it. I feel kinda shitty because I really felt we were clicking.

It might seem odd or silly to some, but it took me a lot of effort to approach her, and I feel like I blew it. I don't know if I'll get the courage to step out my comfort zone like that again. I want to, but I can't bring myself to approach other women... I just feel so out of place when I talk to people. I find it too strange.

C'mon, god. Why am I the way I am?!!!

Sorry, I had to vent

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago | pl

    Babe ruth had a batting average of just better than .300 and had 3300 strike outside in his career. And over 700 home runs.

    He was considered the worst batter in the league for five years. He was technically a very very poor batter for most of his career. But when he finally hit one, he would usually hit it out of the park.

    Dude, one failure does not a loser make. Get back out there and keep trying and eventually you will get that home run you are looking for.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      So weird. I consider myself as someone with a positive outlook, but I guess it's easy to get discouraged when it's my life.

      Yes, you're right. I guess it's not simple, but it's that simple. I'll keep working on myself. Probably gonna miss a few more times, but I'll keep batting.

      Thank you, stranger.

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    • Mark92
      4 years ago

      Exactly, you seem to be one of the most sensible ppl here.

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    I dunno, but gotta get back up, and get back on the proverbial horse of human interaction.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      I appreciate your comments on my first post.

      And I know, but it's so hard to change old habits. I'll try. I mean, I'm trying. I'll get there, eventually. I'm sure.

      BTW, your comments cheered me up last time, and seeing your username made me smile. Have a pleasant day or night, whoever and wherever you are! Thanks!

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      • RoseIsabella
        4 years ago

        You're very welcome, hang in there, and don't give up on yourself.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago

          Wilco!

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          • RoseIsabella
            4 years ago

            👍🏻

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  • Mark92
    4 years ago

    Well it happens. But what you best do is move on, and find someone who loves you for the way you are. Good Luck bro.

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  • Nednerb43
    4 years ago

    You were probably so bummed because you never had that feeling before . That feeling of being wanted is amazing and it hurts to lose but you can feel the joys amd pain of trying and maybe failing or just stay at home and have the joys and pain of being alone. Theres no right way. You gotta figure out what you really want and go for it.

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