Why am i driving myself insane over my boyfriend?

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So im 18 and my boyfriend is 22, he is a bit dodgy and i loved him so much when we got together i finally thought i could trust someone. But now its crazy, i am crazy. I get jealous about everything he does, if he goes out with his friends whatever, i hate going out with my friends because im worried what hes up too. he calls me miserable and depressed all the time but i know im not because when im with my friends at college i have such fun but when im with him i just think about what could happen. i feel like im going crazy. I know he isnt right for me and this is ruining my chances for a good career in the future. I dont know what to do though. i feel so alone as we live together so that would mean having to move all my furniture out too. If he doesnt answer the phone i cant handle it and cry my eyes out (this is when were arguing) Hes made me feel worthless and my confidence has dropped so low. I have thought about hypnosis, ii know this seems extreme but i feel i am stuck and have no other option as even though i know all what he is doing is wrong i still cant find a way to break up with him.

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  • Thatguy777
    9 years ago | pl

    Girls don't make any sense.

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    • Johnnytherat
      9 years ago

      you have earned your piece of cheese for comment of the year. *Epic cheering ensues* *confetti* *random airhorns* *someone hands you giant check for 2,000,000,000,000* pesos*

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    I use to be like that. Well still am a little. Just thinking about things that could happen and have little scenarios in my head. I hate it! But I can't help it. I have always been like that. But anywho. If you feel alone and you know for a fact the he is not right for you then leave him. I know that it is hard. You say you're going to do it when you have the chance but you chicken out. It happens. If he is not treating you right and making you feel worthless than you just have to find the strength to leave him. Just take some deep breaths, talk to him when you both have the chance and tell him. Good luck!

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  • pixie_dust
    9 years ago

    Girl, he's toxic for you. For your self esteem, for YOU. Just using psychology I can tell a lot. He's most likely a dog, and your intuition knows it and it breaks your heart. He probably puts you down in some way, which does two things typically. It'll lower your self esteem and make you feel like he's the only dude in the world. This is why he SUCKS!!!! Years later you will look back on this period with disgust, trust me. I went thru it when I was your age. I'm 38 now, I've lived it, been able to get over it, it took 6 years for me to get beyond it.

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  • Chaddersxox
    9 years ago

    thank you, i know the relationship isnt healthy for both of us so i need to do the right thing

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    How exactly has he made you feel worthless?

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