Who would you want to spend the rest of your entire life with?

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*Person 1*
A significant other who you would die with together having known them deeply and completely. In due time you will learn everything about them; their past, secrets, interests, likes, dislikes -- everything. You would eventually know them 100%, many years before your death

*Person A*
A significant other who forever has some mystery about them till the very end, this also means they have a much greater probability to surprise you. You would still know them very well, and way better than anyone else in the world. And you'd also have a very happy and successful relationship just as much as if you were with Person 1. But you would die having never figured them out completely

Person 1	32
Person A	10
I'd be equally as happy with either, but person 1 if I have to choose	10
I'd be equally as happy with either, but person A if I have to choose	15

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charli.m

9 years ago | pl

Why 1 and A? :/

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howaminotmyself

9 years ago

No matter how much you may think person 1 exists, everyone has secrets. Everyone will become person A.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  Very interesting theory. Skeptical, but I like it
  
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iEatZombies_

9 years ago

Person 1. I very much find pleasure in knowing what has, is, and will happen as much as possible. Knowing someone doesn't take away from mystery, it adds mystery. You know 'what' and then wonder 'why'. When those questions are answered, you both grow as individuals. In such an uncertain world, I can find peace in such a union of the minds.

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Avant-Garde

9 years ago

Person A. As long as they weren't dangerous, I would love to have some mystery in the romance. Some excitement.

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Anonnet

9 years ago

Person 1. I'm very quiet about my secrets and preferences because I imagine they would turn off any significant other. The idea of me being able to be completely open with someone, and them with me, is a serious turn-on.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  The urge of just opening yourself with someone is exhilarating and tempting, but you're right, it can be a turn-off. It would suck to read books if revealed everything in chapter 1. I think the key is moderation. Every *worthy* significant out there would love to know about your secrets and preferences, if you let them in little by little.
  
  I'm a curious person by nature but I dated a person once who emotionally let me in little by little. Everytime I learned something, there was another emotional "door" that was locked, and while I tried opening it, I didn't try to break it down. The result = was interested in them for the entirety of the 3 years I knew them :)
  
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  - Anonnet
    
    9 years ago
    
    It's not the speed of the information I was talking about, it was the nature of it. My stuff can get weird.
    
    Knowing absolutely everything about a person instantly, especially if I'm spending my whole life with them, doesn't bother me in the least. The spice of the relationship wouldn't be in figuring them out, it would be in having a real partner in this world that I can experience everything with.
    
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thegypsysailor

9 years ago

I'm just fine without mystery in my relationship. However, I sincerely hope that my partner does not die for many, many years after I do.
On the other hand, last time around, I died in the war and her life continued another 40 odd years, which explains the huge age gap between us now. So, if she did die soon after me, it would be a kind of "reset" and next time we'd be nearly the same age again. That would be cool.

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- Asstastics
  
  9 years ago | pl
  
  You have age issues, don't you?
  
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  - thegypsysailor
    
    9 years ago
    
    What?????????????????????????
    
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- hauntedbysandwiches
  
  9 years ago
  
  Are you okay bro?
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  All my brain was thinking during reading that was the movie Edge of Tomorrow
  
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  - thegypsysailor
    
    9 years ago
    
    Wow, sounds like a fun flick. I suppose I'll get to see it in a couple of years.
    
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  - thegypsysailor
    
    9 years ago
    
    Sorry, I'm not familiar with that.
    
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alextsang08

9 years ago

A... Sounds like some movie-type bullshit, but she seems badass!

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Riddler

9 years ago

1! This is a no brainier. I don't see why mystery should change anything. As much as A might of been the right answer I still choose 1. Not changing my answer to appease anyone.

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KeddersPrincess

9 years ago

1 sounds more adventurous.

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LizardSkin

9 years ago

Doesn't matter either way. Unless person A has some secrets that would be hurtful. Ignorance is not bliss to me.

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loopoo

9 years ago

Person 1 sounds more 'soulmatey'

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- boredwolf
  
  9 years ago
  
  I want to be your soulmate.
  
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  - loopoo
    
    9 years ago
    
    You're really fucking annoying.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      I bursted out laughing at this
      
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Bobblahblah

9 years ago

I wouldn't care to know everything about them, especially if that meant that they were constantly running on at the mouth; Then I might be tempted to end their life.

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GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!

9 years ago

Which ever one is Jessica Alba .

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Fall_leaves

9 years ago

I'm not a very open person, once in a blue moon I open up and express my feelings but it takes a lot to get me to open up. I think in a relationship I would go with person A just because I don't want to know what my partners thinking at all times. Like I like the idea of being with someone for years and still getting that sense that you barely know them? You're only seeing the tip of the iceberg and you slowly overtime keep uncovering that person and just because you never completely find out who they are, you know that you're completely in love with them, that deep down in that part you can't pick at and get them to open up about you know, your love has reached it. You know they let you in when they shut everyone out.

Which would you choose OP?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  Why, how nice of you to ask. And that was such a lovely description too. Marry me? Though you might want to keep your last name because Fall_Anonymous doesn't have a nice ring to it. So, nevermind *quickly snatches back ring*
  
  Tough to answer my own question, especially since I *am* Person A. My brain has a few theories why Person 1 would be the best fit for me...
  
  Nevertheless, my heart has always chosen Person A. I think this has a small part to play in why I respect another's privacy and secrets so much. But if after 20 years of being with someone, I could learn something about them, for me that is so much more valuable than the comfort of knowing them thoroughly.
  
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  - Fall_leaves
    
    9 years ago
    
    I would marry you on two conditions, I get the left side of the bed and you have to put the toilet seat back down after you pee.
    
    Yes that's completely it, person A is someone that you can grow with, there's always something new to discover about eachother.
    
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  - charli.m
    
    9 years ago
    
    Person a just sounds normal to me :/ no one is ever going to completely know someone else.
    
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anti-hero

9 years ago

You mean everything, everything? Like what she ate for lunch April 5th 1995? That sounds too tedious, I'll pass.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  Of course not
  
  Unless what she ate for lunch April 5th 1995 had any significance
  
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- charli.m
  
  9 years ago
  
  I'd say you're a "person a". I like that ;)
  
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  - anti-hero
    
    9 years ago
    
    I am an international man of mystery.
    
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    - iEatZombies_
      
      9 years ago
      
      Ah, sonuvabitch. All this time I was talking to you I didn't know you were Counterfeit. Same thing happened to me when you were Parrish. This time I was like 'Why is Mel hittin on this guy?"
      I gotta reganize. =*
      
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      - anti-hero
        
        9 years ago
        
        I thought you were being extra nice to me.
        
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        iEatZombies_
        
        9 years ago
        
        Pssh. Sir, it was you who had been nicer to me. I'm always nice. *Hero pose*
        
        Actually I was wondering where you went. You're one of my favorite users.
        
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