Who i would prefer to be with

I admit I have very high standards for who my partner will be (if I ever decide to find one), and one of them would be her willingness to let me spend time with her AND her friends. I'd likely share quite much in common with her due to my standards, and because of that I would likely prefer to spend time hanging out with her and, as I said, her friends as well. Is that normal?

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Based on 57 votes (30 yes)
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  • CrazyNiteOwl

    yes, i love hanging out with my bf and his friends, ive become quite close with his best friend and like to see him alone sumtimes. just because they're her friends doesnt mean they cant be urz too, we're all human and all have the right to socialize with who ever we please, as long as u dnt cross a line

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  • AxisMundi

    its logical to conclude that once you find someone who in that level of understanding (i notice you do not say that they are an identical copy to yourself, just many things in 'common')so this would then mean that going with the same idea that having things in common bring people together, her friends would also get along well with you...
    this sounds completely normal, and in fact something in which I find fascinating, because its like connecting the dots...
    if you have something in common with someone, and do get along with her friends, its not illogical or 'not normal' to spend time with her and her friends, but its seems you already know this~

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  • theceilingfan

    My boyfriend and I live together and share the same friends. I do occasionally hang out with some friends without him and him without me, but for most days off/nights we are together. I very quickly became friends with his friends when I met them, because a lot of the traits I liked about my boyfriend were present in his friends. :)

    I think it's normal to want this kind of relationship. Some people find it stifling, but some people enjoy the extreme closeness it can provide. The trick is to find someone who is looking for the same amount of involvement in her partner's live. Although, don't be too picky, otherwise you might stay single forever! ;)

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  • buriedalive

    what do you do if you don't like her friends? also, if you have loads in common with someone, the whole relationship will probably get stale pretty fast. to be honest though, i think when you meet the right person, none of the little shit will matter : )

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    • But pretty much all I'm asking is what if I DO like her friends?

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      • buriedalive

        Then she'll probably be happy for you all to hang out, provided you still give her plenty of alone time with them too, you wouldn't want to suffocate her : )

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    • Ah. :)

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  • asskicker20230

    no

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