Who i want a relationship with is different from who i want to fuck

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In a relationship I want someone who I respect and see as my equal. Someone who is strong minded and respectable.

For sex I just want some dumb whore who wants to be abused and treated like shit. Someone I don't respect and can do whatever I want to.

Completely different types of women. I wouldn't have a relationship with someone like that but I am a sadist and my sexual desires are different from my relationship standards.

My ideal partner would be a dominatrix who I can share whores with but I require someone I respect for a relationship while I would like some stupid slut on the side who I don't respect.

I currently admire the girl I live with but she is more of a dominatrix/sadist and we get along great but I think she wants more of a monogamist relationship and I respect her so I wouldn't want to cheat on her but I think things would work if we got a whore to share once a month to do whatever we wanted to because I don't think we could meet each others needs otherwise.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    6 years ago

    Now perhaps I'm mistaken and you're using this language to describe the sort of kink you're into, but I really hope that if you find this woman you'll be following the rules of safe, sane and consensual. Degredation and abuse can be fun and if you're a sadist/dom obviously, but consent is still the number one most important thing.

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  • Kevinevan
    6 years ago

    There are a lot of slave girls out there that would be happy to be a side slut. The thing you have to realize is this is most likely just a role they play for their own sexual needs and that outside of the bedroom they are probably pretty strong women.

    I am the same. I prefer a dumb slut in the bedroom and more of a friend for a relationship. To me sex has nothing to do with love the majority of the time.

    Reach out to some of the slut wives of the IIN posters who claim their wives "go naked". I'm sure those whores could fulfill your sexual needs while their husbands enjoy a good cuckold experience.

    This is what they claim anyway so give it to them 😂😂

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    Normal. Perhaps sex for you is more about satisfying your lust, and less an expression of love.

    That's how me and some others see sex/fetishes, anyway.

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    • Algum
      6 years ago

      There is a difference between love and lust. When I was young, there were girls that made me pretty horny just from me looking at them. I didn't know nothing about what they were like and didn't care, I just saw hot pieces of ass.
      But that's how I was when I was young, about 15-20 years ago. In recent years, it's all changed. I felt that it's about companionship and compatibility, and sex doesn't even have to be part of it. It's just about company, sharing ideas, life stories, humor, etc. And there can be things like cuddling, massages, between me and her, and sex does not have to be in the picture. I dont even particularly want it to be. And I also enjoy being on my own. I don't have to be with people, and when I am, sex is just not important to me anymore. Things have changed in 20 years for me.

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      • [Old Memory]
        6 years ago

        That's right; I don't like how some people have tried to mix love and lust together, and pretend like they had sex with someone because they love them.

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  • rayb12
    6 years ago

    Lol I am like ur counter point. I want a relationship with someone I feel equal to but I am somewhat dominant over, but sexually I want a dominatrix who I wouldn't want to date.

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