Who do i really like?

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so ive been with ideal guy for 5 years now. were not official because i made a deal with him to wait for me until i graduate college if he really wants to. (in the back of my head i was hoping he would eventually tire of me) hes really good to me and hes like the whole package you know. and then this summer,i met this guy and spent about 2 weeks with him and our common friends. we both acknowledged the mutual attraction but we didnt do anything about it at first. and then, just before i left for cali, he kissed me and i felt it ya know. like the whole time stops and world spins thing. and i never felt it with ideal guy. the thing is it would be extremely stupid of me to throw of what i have with ideal guy only for spontaneous guy who doesnt really have much going on in his life except living in the moment. bottomline is, what was with the kiss? ive only kissed 2 guys ever in my life. ideal and spontaneous. please explain.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Sounds like you're very young and inexperienced, so give yourself a break. Believe me, nothing's carved in stone...nothing!

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  • disthing
    9 years ago

    Who would you rather play table tennis with?

    If you were lost, who would you rather come find you?

    Who would you rather fuck in the middle of a field during a storm?

    If your phone was ringing, who would you rather was calling?

    If you were in the midst of a zombie apocalypse, preparing to cross dangerous territory to get to a safe house, who would you rather be at your side?

    Which one makes your heart and stomach flutter when you think about them?

    Tally up the results and you have your answer. Not necessarily the right answer, so it's really a pointless exercise, but it's fun to think about anyway.

    Honestly, sounds to me like you're in a 'relationship of convenience', craving something (and someone) new - might be time to move on.

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  • hmmmm987
    9 years ago

    Run and don't look back.

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