Whit guys: would you date a girl with dark skin?

So I have dark skin and in the summer it only gets like 12 shades darker. Haha. Anyway I've always been attracted to white boys, but never felt like they liked me back. Now this isn't a race thing. I swear. I know them not liking me may not have anything to do with my skin tone. I'm just curious. Would you date a girl with dark skin. Ever since I was little my friends and cousins would joke around and say that I'm too dark for him. I know it's all in fun and games, but sometimes I believe them. I know it kind of sounds lame, but I've always wondered. So yea..

Not that I'm saying I have a great personality or anything.. Lol but to make this easier just picture a girl with a great personality..The personality of your ideal girlfriend. Would her skin color make a difference on how you feel about her?

Skin color means nothing to me 66
It may change the way I feel about her entirely 14
It may make a little difference 38
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  • Makayla22

    and i totally relate to the creater of this, i mean my race is black and hispanic so, i know how u feel! im mean, im not “dark”, but im a light brown, so if the person who made this was a lighter brown, would you still date her, but 2 me, the skin doesnt matter, its not wat she looks like from the outside, but how she is on the inside!

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    • Yea I'm hispanic. Lol it's great to know someone can relate :) Yea I'm not naturally super dark, I just tan easily. Give me an hour in the sun and seriously I'm a couple shades darker. No joke. Lol. In the winter, my natural tone comes out though. But thanks for the comment. Again I'm glad someone can relate.

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      • Makayla22

        omg same here! in the sun im like DARK. but in the winter im my natural color..but no problem about my comment i mean, its really nice to know that ppl can relate 2 you, ya know!

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  • I personally think women look better pale. Although, alot of people like the opposite. Nothing to worry about.

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  • misca

    I wouldn't. And no, it doesn't make me a racist if I prefer pale skin.

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  • Makayla22

    i'm a girl, but i need to tell the guys that perfer “pale” skin better then dark skin....BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL!!!

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  • Sailor_Cosmos

    I am half white half indian and have NEVER had a problem dating white guys. Some of them have been a little hesitant to approach me because they weren't sure if I would like them and THEY were afraid of rejection. So you might want to try approaching them.

    Trust me, men are men and as long as you look good and take care of yourself and are well dressed and classy and speak well no one cares what your skin colour is. And if they do they are among the few who were probably raised by racist parents and have certain hang ups...but they are in the minority. Even if a white guys usually prefers white girls he will date a darker girl, like I said, if she is attractive and approachable or approaches him.

    So don't worry about it and Happy White Guy Hunting!

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  • Ryan555

    So what I'm currently dating a Colerd girl and it dosent change are relationship it dosent even mater XD your shuch an idiot to think guys would juge you on your skin

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  • Captain_Kegstand

    I'm a white guy, and I find Hispanic girls absolutely gorgeous! Every guys likes and dislikes different things about a girl, don't worry!

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    • Thanks :) That's good to hear.

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      • Captain_Kegstand

        NP!

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        • :)

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  • thinkingaboutit

    I hope you find a good, loving white boyfriend :)

    My best friend, who is black, has liked white boys since way back. Though consistently I would find myself trying to comfort her because it seemed none of the white boys that preoccupied her thoughts ever noticed her. I think there are many white men that adore black women, but they are scattered.

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    • Yea I hope so too. Thanks for that :)

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      • robbieforgotpw

        I like a girl to look like the tanning mom.

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  • UsernameNotAvailable

    I understand how you feel. I never used to take care of my skin from the sun so I became darker. It was a dramatic difference and my cousins would tease me. I found it kinda hurtful. I don't know why. But now that I've lightened up a lot and they still make fun of me. It's a very annoying situation.

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  • Fireblade_69

    I'm white and personally think brown/ebony/black girls are really really hot but I've never had the chance to meet or date any!

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  • Malaglinir

    It doesn't make a difference unless you are trying to make yourself look more pale or darker. Natural looking complexions are the most attractive, this includes white people who look healthily pale. Anything fake is gross.

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  • Stern_rules

    Does make a diff. jaja. Being honest :\

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  • Charmo

    Define 'dark'.

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  • DolphinAngel

    I simply don't like black skin so no I probably won't date a girl with black skin...

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  • Brad07305

    Your skin would change the way I feel about you... In a good way. Like my friends say, I love different kinds of women for different reasons. They're beautiful and enticing in their own way. Don't listen to what your friends say, do what makes you happy. That's the most important thing. I've dated women of color and would again. The right man for you is out there. When you date the right one, you'll know.

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  • taciturn

    Makes no difference to me. I'm not the kind of person who pretends to be "colorblind", but I find attractive girls of all different types. And it has little bearing on personality, obviously.

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  • Energy

    Hell yeah!

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  • Rachelle_InHighHeels

    Stay within your own "parameters:

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    • Captain_Kegstand

      I'm confused. Does this mean people should date within their own race?

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  • chicken471bologna

    Ummm..."Whit" guys????

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    • taciturn

      Seriously? One completely understandable typo in an otherwise perfectly spelled post and the grammar nazis are on her?

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      • ariannel

        They can't help themselves. It's the only way they think they can make themselves appear superior and intelligent in a conversation that they would otherwise fail in.

        Little do they know....

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        • Captain_Kegstand

          It does annoy the crap out of me though! Who proofreads on here?

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