Which one?

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Well.. I've been with this one guy for 18 months, I've loved him ever since I met him.. literally. (GUY A) He loved me too. Recently, the relationship hasn't been going too well- we barely even speak anymore! I asked him if he still loves me and if he still wants to be with me; he said he doesn't know to both. I've been crying for 7 days straight, I don't think he's even realised- he makes me feel worthless. I don't know whether to break up with him.

And to make things even more complicated, there's another guy who I think I'm interested in, but I'm not 100% sure. (GUY B) We flirt quite a bit and he compliments me so much. He speaks to me whenever he gets the chance, and he makes me smile. He makes me feel like I'm the most important girl in his life. Even if I was single and he asked me out, I wouldn't want to be more than friends- it wouldn't feel right. But I flirt with him so much that I think it would be more fair if I was single.

So: GUY A? Or GUY B?

GUY A- My boyfriend 13
GUY B- My friend 46
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  • Alison89
    12 years ago

    Other than you nagging Guy A and the fact that you are trying to justify your interest in Guy B, what's wrong with Guy A?

    Honestly, when I see something like this, I think both Guy A and Guy B should be sitting at the bar together celebrating the fact that neither of them are dating you.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Guy A has blown his chances.

    His loss!!

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  • RoseIsabella
    11 years ago

    Breakup with your boyfriend if it's hurting you so badly. Take time to heal from the bad relationship before you even think about dating this other guy or anyone else for that matter. Whatever you do don't start messing with this other guy while you're still with your boyfriend cause that would be a selfish, desperate and pathetic way to act.

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  • mamabear
    12 years ago

    If you truly loved guy A you wouldn't have found, or have feelings for guy B. Go with guy B.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You just said you wouldn't want to be more than friends with guy B, so I picked guy A. I don't know the situation with your boyfriend, I don't know if it can get better, but I think you shouldn't be with either guy.

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  • PrincessLollipop
    12 years ago

    Do you think maybe he senses that there's another guy in your life?

    That's the only reason I can think of for him to just randomly distance himself like that.

    & btw, if you feel like this "Even if I was single and he asked me out, I wouldn't want to be more than friends- it wouldn't feel right." why would you want us to vote? You already know how you would feel..

    Good luck with everything though! : )

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  • Ihadtomakeyetanotheraccountffs
    12 years ago

    Maybe you should tell your partner how you feel about all this. He might suddenly realize how he's been and you can sort things out.

    If that doesn't work, in my opinion it may be best if you took a break from each other or just break up completely.

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