which is better being single or married?

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  • Doesnormalmatter

    Thats not what I meant. I should have clarified, I didn't want your original comment, I was looking for your reply to my comment that was down a thread that we had. It started with me saying it was weird, then you replied that I was the one who slept with a flashlight up my ass so I shouldn't be talking. Then came the comment of mine that I wanted a response to :

    Back then I was horny, kinky and naive as fuck! But now I'm only the first two! Makes actual things designed to go up your ass feel much better now haha.

    On a more serious, my sexual interests are pretty fucked. That is just one example of stupid and dangerous shit I did for pleasure or to masterbate too. Now that I'm older I have a better head on my shoulders and do more safe and sane things, but most of those same desires exist. I haven't gone much into detail on here because I'm worried people will think I'm fucked in the head. But is it possible for someone to be like this sexually but perfectly mentally healthy otherwise? Based on various test and assesments I've done, I have low stress in my life and almost no signs of depression or anxiety. I'm good in school and have several normal friendships and ny family thinks I'm fine and normal mentally as well. So the question for you as someone who I can tell knows some psychology, is should I be concerned about this or seek help? Super fucking weird and extreme sexual desires and fetishes but normal from all other indicators. Am I mentally healthy?

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    • RoseIsabella

      I never said you shouldn't be talking, but it's kinda wack to be sticking a flashlight up your bum.

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      • Doesnormalmatter

        I know that it is kinda wack, I'm not denying that! I do wack things to get more sexual pleasure, its a tradeoff wortg it to me. I just don't like people thinking I am all around fucked in the head just because sexually I'm into weird shit.

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        • and this has to do with the topic how???

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          • Doesnormalmatter

            Loooool! Long story short, me and rose where having what I considered a valuable discussion about sleeping with a flashlight up one's ass on another post. And I wanted to reply somewhere else to follow up because that post got deleted for no apparent reason. I know it seems pretty weird. I just laughed like 5 straight minutes at what you must be thinking haha! Anyways its more comments for your post so what do you care?

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        • RoseIsabella

          You know that you, me and everyone else on this site, and anywhere for that matter, are all powerless over what others think of us?

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          • Doesnormalmatter

            Technically less, but its not totally that simple. If someome were to make fun of me for lifting weights so much, which happens, I don't care because they have no real justification besides their claim. But if someone says I'm fucked in the head because of some things I like sexually, in my mind I wonder if their wrong. Because I feel as if I was on the outside looking in I would think the same thing about someone who slept with a flashlight up their ass. If that was a post "iin to sleep with flashlight up ass?" I would comment 'get help' unless I could relate like I can now. This is why I'm concerned about my mental health.

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            • RoseIsabella

              It's good for one to be concerned with one's mental health.

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              • Doesnormalmatter

                I'm aware. I don't think its really causing me issues though so I don't plan on trying to shun such desires or talk to a psychologist or anything. If my life is fine than what does it matter if I have abnormal sexual interests?

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