Where would you be without conflict?

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I know that if given the choice, most of us would prefer not to NEED conflict resolution skills. It'd be nice to never have an argument, problem,  or scary situation pop up our entire lives, right?

However, where would you be WITHOUT the conflict in your life?

Would you be who you are today?
Would you be as strong as you are now?

Is conflict always a bad thing?

I was thinking earlier about choices people might make if they could go back and re-write a part of their past, and I was considering my own.

Would I really go back and change anything?

I actually don't think I would.  It is because of the conflicts I've been through, that I am the person I am today.  If it had not been for the tough times and the things that hurt me, I probably wouldn't be such a nice person.  (At least, I like to think of myself as nice.)  I also wouldn't be as resilient.

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  • BobbyTheBear
    9 years ago

    I wouldn't have an account on this site.

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    • [Old Memory]
      9 years ago

      You don't know conflict, you wana know real conflict than join chat when we have a political discussion.

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      • BobbyTheBear
        9 years ago

        Politics are for hyped up faggots that need to chill the fuck out.

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        • [Old Memory]
          9 years ago

          What's usually said by people who aren't smart enough to contribute to a conversation like that.

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          • BobbyTheBear
            9 years ago

            No i think it's just something true douchebags do because they want to sound intelligent. When in reality they aren't going to change a fucking thing just by flapping their word holes. I don't see a point in getting all worked up over something that i will never have control of. Enjoy your heated debates that won't change anything. You're better off bottling up oxygen and trying to fill up outter space with it.... Tldr i've got better ways to spew out toxic bullshit than discuss different ways to impose our own beliefs on how we should all live.

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