Whenever me and my bf argue he says this

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Whenever we fight he always says, “you have pushed every single girl out of my life. I only talk to you” etc... like what do I say to that? Yeah I’ve gotten mad when girls would snap chat him and stuff.. duh. He says that I’ve distanced himself from his friends too bc I don’t like when he goes to clubs and bars. I realize I am jealous sometimes and a lil crazy haha. But I love him. And I just care. What should I do? And honestly I’m his first gf, he’s 27 and I’m 19, he used to be a drug addict, he’s still in school, and doesn’t have a job, he lives off his parents money and they pay for his rent... and the girls know he has a gf, wouldn’t it be their not texting him bc he’s taken? Ugh idk.

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  • Pumpurrnickel
    6 years ago

    You've posted this several times already. All you do is ignore everyone's advice every time. Quit posting this for attention.

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  • Dustyair
    6 years ago

    You posted this 3 months ago.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      It is still true !

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      • Dustyair
        6 years ago

        Oh, ok. Well tell the stupid bastard to shape up or you're gonna hit the road. He really doesn't sound like he's worth the pain he's causing you.

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    6 years ago

    There's nothing wrong with him talking to and texting other girls.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Why..

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      • [Old Memory]
        6 years ago

        Because he's not your puppet.

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  • little_miss_opinionated
    6 years ago

    The way i always try to see it is how would you feel if he forced you to stop being friends with or talking to some of your current friends? You have to try to see things from his point of view. And also try to explain your side of it all. Get him to understand where you're coming from. Idk about you but i want my boyfriend to like or at least tolerate my friends. and i try to do the same for him. It sounds like you two need to come up with some boundaries. Like if you start hanging around him and his friends more or if you let him have friendships with girls then he doesn't go to clubs. Come up with a deal that appeals to the both of you. Just talk to each other and see what happens.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      It just turns into a fight. He doesn’t understand that I don’t apreicye him going to clubs I don’t care if he hangs with his friends, it’s the fact he’s going to a bar tonight, kicked me out cuz I got upset, and just always argues and calls me abusive. It’s just stupid

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      • Hotdogsaregross
        6 years ago

        Are you the same person that made the recent post called "bf kicked me out cuz I asked him if he loved me".?
        It seems like you are that same person.
        Judging by this post and the other one I think you are pushing him away with you wanting his constant attention and being jealous when he talks to any girl.
        He is saying for you to tone it down because you do need to.
        As hard as it is you need to trust him and give him space. Doing the opposite of this will cause him to push you away. Like he is doing now.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          6 years ago

          He’s not pushing and away. He wanted me to leave to learn my lesson. But he sent me texts saying he loves me and that he’s thinking of me

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          • Hotdogsaregross
            6 years ago

            By pushing away that is what I meant. Him making you leave is giving him the space he wants.
            You need to trust him.
            In the end he may be messing around but it's better to trust him and find out later than drive him crazy when he isn't doing any cheating at all.
            I still don't condone the name calling he is doing that you told me in the other post.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              6 years ago

              Okay. So when he tells me he’s going out with his friends without me, how should I react

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  • Paragon_of_humanity
    6 years ago

    That's just massively controlling to not let him even have friends or hang out with people. People can hang out with others without the person they're dating around. You not letting him do that is honestly just your insecurities. Let him... IDK have a social life with other people.

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