When the only person you were ever close to doesn't even like you

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Is it normal to think that no one else would like you if they knew you, and have no interest in developing relationships anymore?

I have never felt close to anyone, not even my parents or siblings. I didn't even know what I was missing until I met this person. I will never feel that again.

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  • Mark92
    5 years ago

    Move on and try to make new relationships with people who will like you and accept you for who you are. Good-luck!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Sounds superficial and fake.

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  • sydslytherin
    5 years ago

    From everything you said in your post and comments, it sounds like you have serious cases of dramatic and better-than-everyone disorders. You’re not trying to get people to like you because you clearly don’t care or you would try. Get over yourself or be miserable

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Why, do you put a lot of effort into getting people to like you?

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      • sydslytherin
        5 years ago

        I put effort into enjoying myself. Sometimes that involves making someone I think is cool like me.

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  • Shackleford96
    5 years ago

    That's not very much to go on. If you could elaborate some and give us more details, we might be able to provide you with better insight.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Okay. You feel that you share one conscience with this person and completely trust them because they are you. Then, some outside influence rips this person away from you. It feels like half of your heart has been ripped out of your body.

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      • Shackleford96
        5 years ago

        You still aren't telling us very much. Where's the full story? What happened?

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  • Tealights
    5 years ago

    Learn to like yourself so you wont need someone else to do it for you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      I've already done that.

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      • Tealights
        5 years ago

        Then what's the problem?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago

          Okay, fine. No problem then.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    It's normal to feel that way when you are going through such a crisis, but it's not true.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      It may be true, though. Because I won't put any effort into being liked. Like going to parties or developing interests just so I can socialize.

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      • RoseIsabella
        5 years ago

        Surely there must be more to your story if that person was close to you, but now you say this person doesn't even like you.

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