When should a couple first make out?

I want to date this guy and he said he usually kisses the girl before even dating but is that normal? When would be the right time to make out?

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  • HellFlower

    There is no precise timing. A couple should make out when it feels right.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    After the murder.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs

    It depends on how old you are. If you're like 13 or whatever, I suppose kissing is a big deal, but if you're over 18, it's not really such a big deal and most people kiss on the first date or before that.

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  • I had sex with about half the girls I've dated before actually dating them. He told you he usually kisses the girl before even dating because that's a pretty common thing. Many people actually meet their future partner through the result of a one night stand.

    You should always test drive before you buy.

    But ehhh, I'm sure some virgin on here will tell you otherwise with their massive amount of life experience to draw on lol.

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    • GoraIntoDesiGals

      Totally agree. Lolled at the virgin life experience part haha.

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    • handsignals

      Me too, don't wait, just go for it.

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      • *makes an offensive hand signal

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  • RomeoDeMontague

    Well I never went on a date with someone. They asked me or I asked them we dated for awhile and than we started kissing. I would say ignore the guy. He just trying to get some ass. If he aint ready to make a commitment he should not be fucking around. This is code for "Hint hint I want a fuck buddy can I fuck you"? So unless you are ok with that I would say ignore him pour boiling hot coffee in his lap and then kick him in the balls and go. I think its really fucked up manipulating people to doing sexual things with you like this. That is just really dishonest and distasteful. Do not let people use you. Sounds like a fucking douche bag.

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  • imadragon

    I'd say, whenever both parts want to, time doesn't really matter.

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  • FocoUS

    Like most answers to this website: it depends.

    When I was in highschool it was common to kiss in the hallways. But in highschool you're kinda familiar with everyone.

    I wouldn't kiss a dude I'm unfamiliar with before a date. I maybe in a pattern but I normally give a kiss at the end of the first date.

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  • quentari

    make out when you feel it's ready? the "rule" is third date but that's a very outdated rule.

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    • davesumba

      And there are assholes that know about the 3rd date rule, and will take girls out on exactly three dates, have sex with them, and then never call them again.

      I'd say it's when you start feeling an emotional connection, not just a physical. But that's coming from someone who saves sex for potential fiances, so my opinion is void to most people.

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      • quentari

        Third rule is supposed to be a kiss. First sex? When you can be sure the guy isn't gonna just ditch you afterwards.

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        • davesumba

          LOL, i don't know what generation you are from, but that's not what the third rule is these days.

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          • quentari

            I did say it's the outdated rule lol. But that's what it origionaly was, a very long time ago :P

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  • MissyNeko

    When they feel like it. Period.

    It's nobody's business to tell a couple when it's expected for them to have sex. You wanna have fun during the first night ? Go ahead ! You wanna save yourelf for marriage ? It's okay too, and everything inbetween is as well.

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  • Elliemental

    When you both want to! Though sometimes waiting makes it all that sweeter!

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  • GreyWulfen

    When the time is right. That could be the first day or after a month.

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  • OswaldCobblepot

    IMMEDIATELY.

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  • Karmasbitch

    When the time is right. It just happens

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  • Ibelievethis

    When both parties are ready. xxx

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  • yesnomaybeso

    This is so weird for me :o In my opinion, it's the opposite, as in, you kiss him, and then you might end up being something (a couple).

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  • joey1995

    I made out on the first date

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    • megadriver

      So did I. I think it's more of a "If you both want it" thing, not a question of time. Cause I tried dating a chick and she wouldn't give in after 2 months. No way i'm waiting for 50 years just to get to 2nd base :D
      There are a lot of "fish" in the sea :D

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