When i really like a girl, i do not think about sex with her?

This happen to me every time I'm dating a possible new girlfriend.... I do like to think about sex with the hottest girls I know... but when it comes to the girls I do really like, and when I say that I mean: I like their personality not specifically their bodies, but they do have a nice body of course. I dont like to think about sex with them, I think it might ruin our friendship-soon-to-come-relationship. I call it respect, but..

is it normal?

thank you all.

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    IIN people today have a warped idea of what "respect" is?

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  • Store210

    Personaly i don`t think about having sex with anyone, but i have never been in love ether, so there are two posibilities, ether i in love with everyone, or i just don`t want to have sex

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  • ccjigsaw

    So it's kind of like. You don't want to see her as a sexual object, so you supress those feelings and just think of other hotter women? This sounds like it could become unhealthy. Might be a better idea if you tried to menatlly reverese this and see your woman sexually and less of other women sexually when you're in a relationship. If you want to mantain a relationship anyways..

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  • Kind of the opposite. When I see a really attractive girl, I actually never get a sexual thought, and when I force such thoughts, I don't like it.

    I guess I just have a different taste.

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  • kelili

    Nobody knows what we think unless we tell. I let my imagination go as far as it wants. I show respect by my words and actions but my thoughts are very dirty and I really don't mind cause nobody knows. But if you feel good that way then I understand.

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