When does one become a sadist?

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I would like to think Im not a sadist but I am very much turned on by the thought of torturing others against their will. Whether it's sexual or not, I often think about people who I find attractive (or my bf), being tied up and whipped till they are unconscious and there is a puddle of blood staining the carpet. More recently my thoughts have been about poorly executed bondage (in the sense that the rope leaves nasty bruises or causes bleeding) and human cattle prodding. I know that I have a bondage fetish because I have acted on it with my bf but, because I wouldn't dare leave a mark on my bf (out of fear that he would leave me) does that still make me a sadist?

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  • LewSiffer
    9 years ago

    I think the sadism is because you feel powerless and angry, you need to work on those feelings by having couselling etc. it is not healthy. work on the underlying feelings and channel your sexual desires into other non destructive areas that turn you on. good luck

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      goddammit , you sound like my therapist... but thats ok, youre just trying to help i guess.

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  • Avi
    9 years ago

    If you are turned on,then you are a sadist.I'm more like sado-maso.I don't think you should do that since he's not a masochist.If he would be,he would love it.

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  • CloverFish
    9 years ago

    Having the interest makes you a sadist. Actually doing the act without consent makes it a felony. I'd ask your bf about it and see if he's also into that (but not go into the bleeding/heavy bruising degree; that's best saved for fictional RP's, art, and stories).

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      I guess its all fine and dandy as long as no one is unwillingly hurt.

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  • KeddersPrincess
    9 years ago

    When you are me.

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  • Darkoil
    9 years ago

    I'm strangely aroused by this. You've got to love psychotic bitches.

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  • TimmyTheTurtle
    9 years ago

    bitch id snatch that whip from you an strangle you with it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      aww thats not very reassuring

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    It would be funny if he found this and left you.
    :-D

    I not a big fan of snooping, but in this case I think it's warranted.

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