When did bad boys become misunderstood while nice guys became jerks?
Apparently, some genius on another website I spoke with thinks bad boys can be tamed but nice guys are really mean-spirited souls masquerading as nice guys. She reminds me of my older sister. These women think they can hop into the sack with all the loser guys thinking their magic vaginas will transform them into righteous men. Then they get duped and move onto the next ones. My older sister suffers from this same dilemma. I keep wondering how many sticks of dynamite I'll have to blast into her thick head clears up. She's 44 now, and we were both raised by the same parents. I had a far more troubled upbringing than she did, but I still get it.
I have a long track record of attracting single moms, and I'm not inclined to go that route. They insist on learning the hard way believing their magic vaginas will turn the bad boys into princes in shining armor like in Beauty and the Beast. Then they make me feel guilty for not wanting to take on the headaches of fatherhood without passing on my DNA. They seem to have a hard time understanding I'm not a second string. It's not my responsibility to raise someone else's kids because she fucked up the first time with the wrong guy. I'm sure as hell not going to deal with her dirtbag ex-husband, either. She mad her bed; now she has to sleep in it.
Just recently, some woman propositioned me. She wasn't interested in me five years ago when I asked her out. She gave me that whole speech, "Oh, well you're a really nice guy, but let's just be friends." Then she later got involved with some ex-con and dropped out two kids. Now he's doing time in the state penitentiary. So now she wants me! Yeah, now she wants me! Now that she's a single mom who's waist-high in debt with two bastard kids and no father figure around she's interested all of a sudden. My response to her was, "Sorry, Honey! You had your chance and you blew it!"
So ladies, was my friend Jerry right after all that logic doesn't tie into female psychology until about age 35? Does postpartum trigger the rational part of the female brain or is it hot flashes from menopause that do the trick? Help me understand how even a socially awkward person knows bad boys are trouble and most of them deep down are cowards, but many of these women can't when women are naturally better at reading people than men. Help me figure out how big a sledgehammer I need to hit my sister over the head with to knock some sense into her.