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When a guy says he's not looking for a relationship does that mean he's not looking for a relationship with ANYONE or just you and he's trying to be nice about it?
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It means he will fuck you tonight, but don't expect him to call you tomorrow.
It doesn't matter if he's not interested in a relationship with just you or he's not interested in a relationship period because he's either way he's not and won't be into you!
I think you're putting too much thought into this.
Men are simple-minded creatures. If he says he's not interested in a relationship, it just means he's not interested in a relationship. Carry on and find someone who is.
Honestly, it could mean a couple of things. It depends on the situation. If he's already screwed you, it means you gave him what he wanted- Why buy the cow when the milk's free? If you've been talking and dating-ish, he may have problems with you that he doesn't wish to discuss and is just saying 'screw it'.
I'll just put it this way- If he stops talking to you after this, he doesn't like you. If he keeps talking, you should ask him to elaborate on his feelings. Unless you screwed him, in that case he's hoping for more sex and you should move on.
If a guy really WASN'T looking for a relationship, but you happened to be the right one, it would have changed his mind.
Obviously, you didn't change his mind.
Most of the times I assume it's that he's not actively looking for a relationship but of course if the woman of his dreams came along he'd go for it. I think it must be very rare for someone to be absolutely determined not to be in a relationship in any possible scenario.
I wouldn't put too much thought into this, I'm no relationship guru but I do believe if he says he isn't looking for a relationship, that's just it. Not looking for a relationship, whether its with you or with anyone. Don't take it too personal =]
Allow me to introduce myself. I'm a 20 year old asexual male. It just happens that those guys you're talking about are the ones that walk straight up to women without any qualms and so appear to be the supermajority of men, but they are not.
I am, and I'm one of the nicer ones. It's in our nature to procreate whenever we can. Why fight nature; we are what we are.
Can you honestly say you have no desire to bed an incredibly attractive woman when you meet one?
Have you never taken (and given) pleasure in the company of a woman with no thought that it was going to become anything more for either of you?
If you can't answer yes to both questions then there is something wrong with you.
If you are saving yourself "for the right woman", then you will probably lose her anyway, as sex, like everything else, takes practice and you will most likely be lousy in bed.
It's also in our nature to create complex societies. We fight base instincts every day to achieve and maintain this. The argument that we are fighting nature by resisting certain temptations is ridiculous - it's in our nature to resist temptations; if not fucking every available person we're attracted to will result in a preferable outcome, then it's the rational choice.
Your first comment implied that men will only befriend a woman if they want to stick it in her. I have many female friends I don't wish to stick it in, who I don't wish to be in a romantic / sexual relationship with, but whom I still respect and love.
Boy have you read me wrong; you didn't even get my sex right.
I hate feminists! I miss the old days when Gentleman's Clubs were men only, when no blonde chippies were allowed into men's locker rooms after a sporting event and Hooters had only female servers!
So try again.