Whats your preference in terms of sexual experience of a life-partner?

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I tried using search but a similar thread didnt pop up.

Also, try to answer keeping in mind that it's a life-long or long-term relationship partner

I'm female and want him to be much more experienced 2
I'm female and want him to be slightly more experienced than me 6
I'm female and want him to be similarly experienced 13
I'm female and want him to be a virgin 7
I'm female and it really isnt a big deal to me. Honestly 11
I'm male and want her to be much more experienced 6
I'm male and want her to be slightly more experienced than me 4
I'm male and want her to be similarly experienced 15
I'm male and want her to be a virgin 23
I'm male and it isnt a big deal to me. Honestly. 19
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  • CountessDouche
    9 years ago

    Normally, I don't give a shit. I've been with people who've had a lot of partners and people who've had none; it made a remarkably small difference in terms of a satisfying performance, in my experience.

    However...

    I do care if a guy has a history of cheating on a ton of girls, if a guy has had a ton of casual sex and no serious relationships, and if a guy talks about or compares me to his sexual experiences with an ex...but those are more behavioral red flags.

    Otherwise, it doesn't really matter to me. Quite often, I don't even ask how many people a guy has slept with.

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  • Fall_leaves
    9 years ago

    I suppose I would want my life partner to have similar sexual/relationship experiences to my own. I wouldn't want to be with someone that has had a lot of partners but that's because I haven't had a lot. In a sense I think it's sweet that people save themselves for marriage because there's no comparisons, there's no doubts, there's just love and that one person who knows you better than anyone else :)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Ugh. I'm so sick of you and your posts.

      As if I dont like you the max amount possible already. You want me to explode with how much I like you, dont you?

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      • Fall_leaves
        9 years ago

        that just made my day, thank you OP

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  • Anonnet
    9 years ago

    I'm a virgin, so I thought for a minute whether to vote "I want her to be a virgin" or "I want her to be similarly experienced". Voted virgin, since I realized I would still want her to be a virgin even if I had sexual experience. Not being compared sexually to a previous guy while simultaneously being the first person "there".

    A little surprised that "much more experienced" got practically zero votes for both men and women. I guess no one wants that partner that is bored to death by everything they bring to the table.

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    I like Woman that love sex and have done everything including a whole bunch of shit I didn't even know about.

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  • NotAgain..
    7 years ago

    This poll is discriminating against gays!!!!

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    It honestly doesn't matter to me. The only thing that matters is being able to be with the one I love.

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  • LizardSkin
    9 years ago

    Virgin hunter. It's a rare breed. Like a unicorn.

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    • CountessDouche
      9 years ago

      Actually, in this proverbial metaphor, you would be the unicorn; mythically speaking, unicorns are "virgin rapers"

      Fact fo' the day.

      Have fun masturbating to it! ;)

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      • LizardSkin
        9 years ago

        I read that 5 times and still don't understand what you wrote. lol...

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