Whats wrong with my boy??

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Okay so me and this guy has been talking for 8 months now and I can't seem to understand him... at all! He says he likes me and cares about me but never shows it besides when he comes to see me. And even when he does come to see me, we barely even talk! Its like we just sit there very awkwardly.. I hate it! He asks me all the time why I don't tell him how I feel, which I thought sending him up to 10 page text about how I feel about my parents and other friends or life in general was telling him my feelings..? And when I send him all that he'll just say "oh" or "lol" as if he's laughing at me. I feel like he couldn't care less about me! Sometimes he just won't even text back when I tell him how I feel.. then complain I don't tell him enough. He's driving me crazy! He gets mad wayy too easily, for instance last night my insecurities over came me and I asked him if he would ever lie to me, after a while he finally said no so I asked if he was sure.. so he automatically jumps on my case and asks what's going on? He's been acting so strange lately so I finally said "what is going on tyler?"(his name). So he just replied "umm going ok bye" and that's all. He also won't talk about his problems with his mom because he says it'll make her look bad. Am I missing something here? Did something scar him in life to make him soo preserved and careless? Am I losing it like I feel? Or is there something truly wrong with my boy? IIN?? PLEASE HELP!!! I need answers!

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  • xino00
    13 years ago

    I think you are being paranoid and pressuring him too much>:/

    You do know that girls talk a lot, and when lovers are together, the women must do the talking while men listen. That's the whole point.

    This is why your bf is asking you to talk to him about your problem so that he can LISTEN to your problems.

    If you talk to people FACE to FACE about your problems, it makes you feel better because you know therefore someone is listening to your problems and understands your cry.

    You think sending him your problems on txt would do anything?
    If I was to say "you stupid bitch" online or on text. Would you think I'm saying that in a surprised way or angry way?

    And then it comes to the insecurity part, why were you being paranoid asking if he'll ever cheat on you? you are just pushing it and your bf did the right thing!

    What you need to do is, send your bf good txt messages and txt that sparks conversation. Not txt messages complaining about your problems and families because it'll drive your bf mad and boredom.

    When both of you are together, you DO the talking! Talk about your problems and sh* and he'll listen, therefore you'll appreciate him for being your bf and being there.

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  • CountryRoads
    13 years ago

    Yeah who would want to spill their heart over text messages? That doesn't sound serious at all. You should talk on the phone for that stuff, so you know the tone of voice. He's probably annoyed that you see him a novel of texts about your girly feelings. Guys don't like that.
    He sounds lane anyway, why do you still talk to him if you can't even hang out without it being awkward? Sounds like a total disconnect.

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  • louloublue
    13 years ago

    He is a closed book- A ticking time bomb. I am concerned as repressing his emotions could result in violence. I could be wrong but try to get him to open up more, its not healty to bottlew it all up

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  • TheLogicalJew
    13 years ago

    Well, he certainly ignores what you say in your texts, or responds to the information in an inappropriate way. I would have to say this isn't normal.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    i think its nice to be quiet too, just sitting there together. if you want to talk about yr problems go ahead but try and remember he might just say "oh" or "thats bad" because he doesnt have all the answers. just be happy he listens

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