Whats wrong with me

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we were together for 5 yrs, we have 8 month old son together. all he ever did was cheat on me and lie to me. he would leave my house after spending time with me and our son and go to some other girls house. it makes me feel like me && my son are not good enough for him cuz he has to go be with someone else. especially it makes me feel not good enough. i mean whats wrong with me that he has to go be other girls, i mean aint i good enoug?? && whats the worse thing my son doesn't even know him when he see's him. he dont act like he cares about his own son. idk it's hard, we've been broken up for about 6 months now && i still haven't gotten over him. i need to forgive him then ill be able to let go....i just dont know how.

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  • so_damn_unpretty
    13 years ago

    There is nothing wrong with you. You simpy lack self confidence (which is a problem many have) just keep telling yourself that you have moved on to bigger and better things.You made the right decision. No one deserves to be disrespected like that. You ARE good enough and there a milion guys who will show you that, but you have to higher your standards a little and dont be shy to ditch dirt bags. He may have set a bad example for your son. Keep an eye out for him. As he grows up make it sure he knows right from wrong and how to treat others with respect.

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  • RemorseCode
    14 years ago

    Sorry to nitpick, but how old are you? You talk like a teenager. What does && mean?

    But, Rowdy is right. What we have here is a classic case of elf pity. It doesn't become a woman, or a man. But it is becoming of small woodland creatures. It isn't YOUR problem that he is taking the p*ss and is an utter b*stard. It is HIS problem, do not be concerned with him anymore. The best thing you can do is get over it as soon as possible. Ensure that the kid grows up having a strong, independant mother who he knows can stand up for herself when need be. Do you need him to feel good about yourself? No.

    Also, if you can, try dating somebody else or finding a hobby. I know its hard being a single mother but really try. Having a good supportive significant other can really boost your self confidence and give the child the environment he needs. Which are your two major concerns right now. Once you forgive yourself and build back your self esteem, everything will start to fall into place. Do not despair. You have an entire website of random people you will never meet just itching to give you advice.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    U should stay away from him and try to meat someone ellss

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    • naem101
      13 years ago

      yeah MEAT~

      oh..get over yourself girl..get some respect for yourself..kay?
      i will survive! sing that shit..

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  • laxkb420
    14 years ago

    that was the question right

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  • RemorseCode
    14 years ago

    I meant self pity.

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  • RowdyCowboy
    14 years ago

    There is obviously a lot wrong with you- to begin with, you were 5 years with a guy who didn't respect you and yet, you got pregnant with his baby. YOU ARE NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR ANYBODY IF YOU LET PEOPLE WALK ALL OVER YOU-

    It is not about your forgiving him- It is about you building some confidence and self-respect- You have a child now, move on with your life- find ways to make yourself happy- It is about you and your child now-

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