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My friends are great and i love them alot
But sometimes i take these AWFUL mood swings and i go crazy and get violent towards them, and later i regret it. But i feel good when i get my anger out, i hate to see them hurt and i can't help myself. Is it normal to feel that way sometimes?
You might have pent up rage. I might advice anger therapy. I do not know what your home life is. You may have something deep down you are ignoring and its coming out.
You could have bi-polar disorder if you feel rage very quickly or fly off the handle when there is no call for it. Or you could simply be stressed. Be careful, though, I have a friend like that and all my freinds in our little chircle got very close to just completely forgetting about her over it. I mean, we are loyal friends and I loved her to death, but it was too much for us to take. We couldn't even talk to her sometimes.
try letting your anger out on something out not on people you love.Because if you keep letting your anger on your friends,you might end up lsing them. Just try not to let your anger out on your friends.
i had a friend like you. we dont like him anymore, fix up and chiiiiil the fuck out!
i can relate, i dont even realize it. But my friends are scared of me. Everytime i get angry either i isolate myself, become quiet or well worse i become sarcastic. isolation and quiet didnt work for me and my friends either so i dont know, im still blank. they worry too much
I'm like that mostly towards my family, not friends.
You can give your family crap and they gotta love you anyways and still live with you, friends not.
Oh i do it when i'm stressed or very frustrated, i yell and curse and act not normal.
Maybe you have some bi-polarity? It's okay and good to express your anger, however it's not okay to hurt others, especially if they're people you care about and who care about you.
This is SO not meant to be mean or even directed personally at you, poster, but I feel this is a sign of an overall sick society. A healthy human being should not feel the need to emotionally abuse another human being, that's what I think (don't take offense please, I'm not familiar with you or your life) :/
Also, just because I am mad that my dog barks at the neighbors does not mean I have a right to kick him for it. ITS CALLED SELF CONTROL, FUCKING LEARN IT.
Your mental you need meds or a good fuck. One or the other will do the trick.
I have the exact same problem!!! I love all of my friends, but I enjoy to see them hurt, and want me back. I just can't help being mean to them sometimes, and I do feel bad afterwards, but I kind of like it. :S
I think you better stop that or you might see a change in your friends. You must learn how to deal with stress than taking out your anger on your people or , as you said , you will regret it.
It's so normal we have made anger management classes. It's better just to not do those things. People like me get sick of it quick because we've decided being around people who are always "sorry" is a waste of time.
it's normal to get really angry sometimes, i blow up at my boyfriend for no reason sometimes! i'm lucky he loves me haha
maybe try to take it all out into something else apart from your friends you will all probably feel better for it
ive recently started being like that from all the stress i cant handle stuff well at all anymore and i flip out on my bf and it feels great to yell and piss ppl off as much as im pissed off but after im like omg what did i do what have i said.. and i feel like shit but it keeps happening!! what the heck ehh
i think that every gang of friends has the hothead, but this can lead to friends feeling unable to approach you, which at best will end up in then talking about you behind your back, to avoid this try laughing about your mood swings in front of your friends, and hear what they might have to say about them once rthey know you are in a good mood.