Whats wrong with a men haveing sex with a teenager

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im seeing now adays that teens like 13-17 have sex with older men like 25 and up,and no one do anything about it.when people see a young girl with a older men the men is to blame,but the girl can get away with it easy,my sister was 14 haveing sex with a 27 year old men,why are young girls doing this and nothing being done with it.the guy's are the one thats being treated badly.

i think the sex life of a female is more easy then the guy,the guy have to go through so much.and to me its not worth it at all.

i dont think any of this is good.no men should do this

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago | pl

    Your post was a little rough to read....but I do understand what you are getting at. It works both ways. A 27 year old man should know better than to sleep with 14 year old girls, even if she is the one trying to initiate sex in the first place. In that kind of situation when a little youngster girl is trying to get penis stabbed by a much older man...it is his job to realize that it is still illegal and wrong and say no.

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    • captblood44
      9 years ago

      i don't know how stupid you were when you were 14, but i knew right from wrong. i also had a lot of peers who knew that society gave them a free pass and took advantage of it.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    From your post, you sound quite illiterate and uneducated, so it's no wonder you don't can't understand these things.
    Children, (teenagers, whether they think they are children or not) are, in cognitive function and the eyes of the law, not mature enough to make informed decisions about who they should or should not, have sex with. It is a simple matter for most adults to convince these children to do things that they are not mentally mature enough to do. To put it simply, children can easily be manipulated by adults.

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    • [Old Memory]
      9 years ago

      Teenagers are absolutely not children, and only pure audacity could compel a person to believe that they have any say in telling a physically mature person, whom they don't even know, what they can do with their body.

      However, I personally believe that 13 is cutting it too close.

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      • thegypsysailor
        9 years ago | pl

        Have you read the many, many posts on here from the teens? And you can say, with a straight face, "Teenagers are absolutely not children"? Teens in the US today are so mollycoddled and insulated from life that should they have a minor traumatic incident in their lives, they are rushed to a therapist so quickly they have no idea what the minor traumatic incident actually was. Hell, many college kids today aren't even capable of making intelligent decisions, and end up with crushing debts for four years of fucking around, instead of taking advantage of the education they are paying so damned dearly for.
        Anyway, it doesn't matter a damned bit what you or I think, because in the eyes of the law, they are children, period.

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        • [Old Memory]
          9 years ago

          "Teens in the US today are so mollycoddled and insulated from life that should they have a minor traumatic incident in their lives, they are rushed to a therapist so quickly they have no idea what the minor traumatic incident actually was."

          Yeah. Exactly. Youth are CONDITIONED to be dependent, irresponsible and foolish. Just watch any movie aimed at young people - the message is pretty clear: "You're a 'minor,' therefore you're expected to be an idiot who can't do anything right. And whatever happens, it's always the adult's fault; certainly not yours. Because you're under the age of 18. So you're naturally stupid. And reckless. And essentially just a drain on your parents and society as a whole. But don't feel guilty or ashamed - you're young, so that's all to be expected of you! Now run along now and drink a few beers (even though you're not supposed to) and commit a couple of misdemeanors like a normal kid."

          And what's this about "the law"? You mean to tell me that you actually respect this merciless, oppressive system; the same one that permits women to kill their babies while jailing those who smoke a particular type of plant? Fuck this government.

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        • LyeByMistake
          9 years ago

          Yeah, America is so fucked, lets just ignore the rest of the world, I'm enlightened.

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          • thegypsysailor
            9 years ago

            Let us just speak of what we know, OK? Not what CNN or whatever would have you believe. I wasn't raised in the UK, or Kenya, or Pakistan, so my comments are related to what I know, the US.
            If you have any personal experience beyond the borders of the USA, then please, by all means, contribute. Otherwise, why the extreme sarcasm?

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        • captblood44
          9 years ago

          america is so full of double standards, its not even funny. 7,8yo are smart. years ago, we had two teenage girls up the road terrorize and run rough shod over their parents. they threaten their parents with reporting them with sexual child abuse and got their way and did whatever they wanted. what? you think adolescents are angels? dude's right. kids get away with a lot and they are not held accountable. and if they are, they are rushed to a therapist, its never their fault.

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  • thr
    9 years ago

    I don't really get what the question is. Regarding how normal the stuff you mention, is, I would be surprised if 13 year olds having sex with twenty-somethings were normal in the society I live in.
    17 is another matter, though being with a guy of 25 or more years of age is still unusual, I would think.

    As for the title question, there could be a number of things wrong.
    It goes without saying that anything happens against the will of the teenage girl, that would be wrong. Perhaps the likelihood of that happening are greater because she might have a harder time saying no and different boundaries than an older woman.

    It could pose problems, that the two people have different expectations for the relationship and different levels mentally.

    I might also be that he sees her as an easy target/score, and that that's a big part of why he is pursuing her.

    Perhaps it could also be that there is nothing wrong with the relationship, that it's more or less a case of two people enjoying each other and each other's company.

    Also, have you asked you sister why young girls would do such a thing?

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  • Parky_Parker
    9 years ago

    I don't know why teenagers do that... I wasn't even thinking about sex when I was 15. My parents were very strict, so I would have never pulled a stunt like that. I wasn't allowed to have a computer with internet in my room and when I was able to have a cell phone at 17, it was a huge deal. Even when I was 18, I had to follow certain rules because I lived under my parents' roof. I'm lucky to have great parents that are still together. I'm 24 now and very thankful to them for raising me to be a decent person in this crazy world.

    Unfortunately, not every child has two adult role models to look up to. Maybe "parents" need to step up and keep track of what their kids are doing.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      thats a very wise thing to say,and you right your parents loved you enough to do protect you from this awful world,

      sad but true

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  • bjorncoetsee
    9 years ago

    If it feels normal to u, who are other people to judge? We have a perception of what normal is, because of what society thinks.
    Normal is an illusion
    What is chaos for the fly, is normal for the spider.

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  • Tommythecat.
    9 years ago

    13 are you kidding me?

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    "why don't you take a seat over there"

    https://images.encyclopediadramatica.es/e/e2/Hanson_exploitable_fixed.png

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  • Gspyder
    9 years ago

    Young teenage girls are still looked after by their parents and lack the life experiences to know what's best for them in a mature relationship. The older person will have too much influence in their decisions.

    also if a young girl gets pregnant they are seriously fucked in more ways than one.

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