What would you say is your biggest flaw?
What would you say is your worst flaw as a person?
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What would you say is your worst flaw as a person?
I sometimes struggle to understand that even when people aren't good enough, many of them are on some sort of an inner journey along the right path. In any case it is the world that's to blame, not the individuals who live in it who are just doing their best to survive. We need to turn off the machine instead of shouting at cogs. When people represent something clearly awful it's very tempting to jump down their throats, but those people aren't the enemy. They're just the carriers of the virus. One of my most important flaws is failing to act that principle.
Everything else isn't really a "flaw". Like, my anxiety isn't because it's an important part of who I am and to hate it would be to hate myself. My anxiety gives me energy and passion that comes out in weird bursts that keep me real. It's fucking beautiful.
I allow fear to rule my life- I restrain my own freedom.
I am liberated in heart, but not in action.
I have a million things I want to do where I could do much better, career wise, if I put all of my time and effort into one.
I'm a workaholic and put 90% of my energy into work and my personal life is in a constant state of hell because of it.
I think I look like shit even though I'm constantly complimented on my looks and have no trouble pulling dates.
I feel like a whore because no matter how I dress, I still get unwanted male attention.
I'm outgoing and sociable even though I have mad social anxiety.
I hate exercise.
I internalize stress and then randomly reach breaking points and act out of line.
I doubt my expertise on subjects that I do have actual knowledge in and end up being right most of the time and still doubt myself because others have doubted me.
The list goes on...
It's definitely that I have social problems. I get really paranoid in social situations. I have to deeply analyze every word I say or I just don't say anything at all, which is why people wonder why I'm "so quiet." I'm uncomfortable around people and as much as I try to hide it sometimes people still notice that about me. The only time I'm completely comfortable is when I'm by myself, away from everyone else. It kind of sucks, but that's the way she goes.
I have quite a few. Here are the ones I've already mentioned on this site before:
- I still think I'm fat despite the fact that I'm a small in clothing size.
- I have little experience with the male gender due to stupidly exploring the female gender more even though I'm more attracted to males .
- I have an immature perverted mind.
- I'm way too shy and awkward.
- I only care about the people in my house and a few select people I'm close to. If anyone else on this planet dies or suffers, I wouldn't feel sad for them.
I really don't want to say anything out of line here...but I'm kinda worried about your first point. I don't mean to be rude or nosey, but from what you've said about your weightloss on here, while I think you've done an amazing job and deserve everything for all your hard work and dedication...you remind me so much of my cousin who ended up anorexic and hospitalised. She's doing ok now, but it was scary (and she wasn't even a "bad" case from what little I know of the illness).
I hope I didn't offend you by saying this, I just was worried about you for the last few months now. I hope this doesn't come across as a negative. I really mean it in a caring way. I like you and I want you to be healthy and happy.
Thank you very much. I really do appreciate the concern and I'm not offended. :) I'm making sure to take the right steps toward staying at a healthy body weight and I apologize for worrying you.
I'm a moron, dunderhead, scatter brain dingbat. But that's not really a flaw...is it?
If it counts at all, I don't think you're any of those things. I don't really know you, but judging from comments it doesn't seem like that at all.
I love you for using dunderhead.
My.....8th i think, 8th grade teacher Ms. Stone used to call us "Dunderheads" hahaha she was awesome. One of those oldies but a goodie teacher :D
That's not actually contradicting at all. You know, the fact that you admit you're insecure is a big evolution from the Duz I first met.
Yeah. I've tried to make it seem a bit known when I am being sarcastic about my vanity but I think some people take the comments I appear super vain on as if I am being serious. Lol. :)
What the fuck is a Duz?
Has anybody ever questioned what the fuck his name means
Negative thoughts, mixing emotions with facts and reacting strongly to my own emotions that lacks roots in reality, generalising.
Mood-swings and definitely jealousy and fear of rejection.
Up-sides are that I am trying to work with it and improve myself for myself.
I'm too perfect, I make others feel inferior.
No for realz, I'm lazy and sloppy. But I'm almost too nice to everyone , not sure if that's a good or bad thing.
I'm incredibly indecisive for starters.
Um... I don't think I'm much of a good friend either. My friends don't say anything, but I think I really grate on them sometimes.
Leads to the next thing: my personality doesn't cooperate with many others and it's hard for me to understand other people a lot.
Oftentimes I start this whole loop of circular reasoning in my head about something - anything really - and then I slowly get stressed over it.
Many times I find myself thinking 'I don't have the right' when telling myself why or why not to do something... not sure if that falls in the flaws department though.
My temper is rare, but when it does come out it frightens me. Not because I'll punch somebody but it just feels wrong.
I'm told I can come off as cold and analytical and sometimes mocking, even if I'm not trying to or don't think I am.
Ugh, did I mention my roundabout way of saying things and my indecisiveness?
I often see the potential negative out of every situation and person. Plus, I am impatient.
I try too hard
(Its impossible for me to not try that hard)
I sometimes appear cold since I have no visible reaction
(My friends understand I care though and I am trying to help)
Eccentric
(I dont know if that counts but it seems to irritate some people. I love my eccentricity though)
I am way too eager about everything
(Makes people think I am weird)
I usually helps anyone who asks just because they asked even if I know ill get nothing in return because my damn moral code and guilt says I have to.
I have a very obsessive personality and many OCD tendency
(This is more dangerous when I become obsessed with people)
I cant always express my feelings normally but I will show I care through gestures
(People dont always understand that means im caring)
I prefer written or text communication just because my brain cant put a proper thought into my mouth and I still have a speech impediment
I look like a child despite im 21(I hate being asked for a kids menu as well)
I tend to look way less intimidating than I am so people try to mess with me and are confused when I hurt them
I tend to not know how to handle my own strength and am very rough without realizing it
...There are a lot. It actually depends on what you're focusing on for my flaws.
If it's like... a personality flaw:
I'm incredibly shy! When I meet someone, I try to speak, but nothing would come out. I try to keep eye contact, but my eyes fall elsewhere. There's this other bad habit of pulling at the bottom of my shirt when freaked out. Actually, wait no. ALL THE FREAKING TIME.
If you're talking about my fangirling issues:
Well, I am a fujoshi. I like slash shippings and yaoi. I *somehow* always like to put my favorite character as the uke (top). Then there's the seme (bottom).
As a fangirl, it's a "job" to go look at fanart (although the fandom that I'm in kind of died already and there isn't much going on). When I see that the uke and the seme are mixed up [according to me] (happens in a lot of Hetastuck), I get so pissed. Then, I never want to see this again. ...Okay, I'm gonna look at it again someday.
The next time I see it, I get fucking pissed again.
And the cycle continues.
There's more to my fangirl issues... I find the level of my fangirling disturbing to others. They must think: "Wow. What the fuck is wrong with her?"
I mean, I even took photos of Betty Crocker cake mix at the store (Homestuck)! Then, I start to sing every time I pass by pasta, tomatoes, or anything (Hetalia). Then, I pass by the salt and glare at it (Supernatural [Fandomstuck]). But! I pass by the scarves! THE SCARVES. ({Triple Combo} Hetalia, Sherlock, and Doctor Who)
You see, I freak out a lot while shopping.
I am clumsy (always was always will be) and suffer from foot in mouth disease (I always say what's on my mind and consequently find myself saying the wrong thing at the wrong time)
That's not all my faults but there's far too many to put down on the list.
Clumsy. terribly clumsy. and i never learn my lesson the first time either
I look too much like keanu reeves.
Im just there in a restaurant, enjoying my food, when suddenly a man clothed in black apparel points his gun at me.
This has happened in a convenience store too. It wasnt very convenient :-|