What would you pursue?
what would you choice in your standards? Would you forgive all who do wrong or get revenge that may lead upon a dark path?
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reminiscent
well interesting question. i mean there are so many variables that could go into a situation. what in the world did the person do to incur my wrath?
getting revenge doesn't necessarily mean going down a dark path or being unhappy. couldn't taking revenge mean getting justice... i mean you could just go about it the right way like threw the justice system.
it could be a simple righting of a wrong.i would think it can get a bit dark if people obsess over it or if you do harmful illegal things to reach your revenge goal. and to never forgive is wrong. but at the same time not everyone deserves automatic forgiveness ether....situations vary
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Waya
you have good reason, but love always wins and can surpass any revengeful feeling. If you cant forgive others don't expect forgiveness from others. For instance you were to do something by accident and say sorry would you like the other person to seek revenge because of that little thing? Would you want your kids to follow the same path?, i think not.
Revenge is a deep darkens that consumes you, but your heart is always a light to guide you so you don't get lost. Don't reflect darkness into others instead, reflect the light to others who need it.Comment Hidden ( show )-
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reminiscent
see your example is an accident. accidents can be forgive because the other person didnt mean to do it. and no one is perfect everyone makes mistakes.
but what if someone does something on purpose? they dont care? what if they keep doing whatever it is over and over...your supposed to just forgive and forget every time?
i personally would hope my daughter never allowed someone to walk all over them.
you can make peace without forgiveness.
cut toxic people out of your life.my bfs mom has done unforgivable things...we are just cutting her out of our lives...washing our hands of her. i guess as her punishment she never gets to see her son or grandchild again. too bad so sad!
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Waya
Lets put it this way; The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget.It also takes a strong person to say sorry, and an even stronger person to forgive.It also means forgiving is not forgetting. It's letting go of the hurt.Grudges are also for those who insist that they are owed something; forgiveness, however, is for those who are substantial enough to move on.
I am not trying to change your ways, but i hope you find it in your heart one day to forgive the ones who hurt you instead of dwelling on hatred,misery and move on. It all happens for a reason.
Its a necessity to grow stronger to protect you loved ones. hatred cannot drive out hatred, only the light can. Well we are all here for a reason, we live this life to experience and learn. Life is like labyrinth or series of chambers and in order to open the next door we need to pass a certain task to open the other door.
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reminiscent
lol
i dont dwell on it.i dont dwell on anything.your not taking in account every situation that could happen.
in the example of my bfs mom we just left. if we forgave her that would be us talking to her again. we dont forgive so we dont talk to her. forgiving would literally change nothing. she wouldnt change she never has. also she has never said sorry for anything ever.
but its not like i sit here and dwell on it all day. i just left the situation and that was that.
so we left her behind and we are starting a new better life.not every situation deserves forgiveness...but people should also learn to move on.
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Waya
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that's fine it doesn't mean you haft to talk to her againwell tough love sometimes!My siblings never have said sorry to me in their lifetime no matter. Like geez they have such thick skin , but im so sensitive hehe oh well
i agree in your situation, because you need people to build you not bring you down.Surround yourself with good energies that's they way to go Remini.
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chained_rage
Hmm.. i'd say you'd better supply me with sufficient coin I can use to pay the boatman.
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qualityaristocrat
Both are degenerate paths, ultimately being hedonism of different sorts. The only non-degenerate path is that of nobility.
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