What would you feel if you entered on your guy going at another woman?

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So here's the deal. My boy Rick and I are headed to some venues downtown this Friday. He's going mainly for pick-up, and officially I'll just be his wingman.

Now I say officially because I'm like in "a relationship", whatever, I got a girl that lives with me. She usually lives with her mother, but she's been spending most of her nights at my place lately.

The problem is I know if I start talking to chicks, I might just get carried away and escalate things with one of them, especially if she's responsive even passively. And I could very well end up bringing her home. Which brings me to my hypothetical question...

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  • jo8898
    6 years ago

    establish whether it's an EXCLUSIVE relationship. Yes or No. Cut and dry.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Yeah I guess we'll be having that talk sooner or later..

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  • SmokeEverything
    6 years ago

    Anyone who wouldn't just join in isn't worth your time

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  • curious-bunny
    6 years ago

    Offended with a itchy trigger finger. It would take alot of self control to stop myself from pulling back that hammer, either way I would never care for him again

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Good thing most people aren't like you, or else we'd end up with neverending bloodbaths, since almost everyone has either cheated or been cheated on at least once in lifetime. Savages like you don't belong in civilized society, and I hope you do mess up and get put away for a long time. Anyone who points a gun threateningly at someone else for any other reason than self-defense deserves to have his life ruined.

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      • curious-bunny
        6 years ago

        I value trust and honesty above all else, so if I walked in on that it was be perceived in the worst ways possible for I would not days someone if I didn't tryst them with my life so personally I feel my itchy trigger finger would be indeed justified, doesn't mean I would shoot them but I would be mightily tempted to. Besides civilized society us disgusting i would be happyg being away from it

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          6 years ago

          You value "trust and honesty above all else" and you find civilized society disgusting? Hehe okay. Are you schizophrenic?

          If you think for a second that shooting someone is anywhere near a proportional punishment for cheating, then you're the one who doesn't deserve any trust. I mean, say you made a cake, and you told you kid "don't eat that cake I'll be back in a jiff," and once back you find the plate of cake empty and chocolate all over the face of that brat smiling like a moron who just got laid. What do you do, you throw the kid off the balcony? Okay, he ate that fucking cake! It's not the end of the fucking world! Just take his damn computer away for a week and let him jerk off to his imagination and let everyone move on their business!

          By the same token, instead of eating the cake, well he stuck his dick in some pussy! Hey, that shit happens! What, you're gonna bring out the shotgun?! Why would anyone chill around an overreacting nut like that? I'd sleep with a gun in my grip for God's sakes around someone like that. His dick fell by accident inside someone, over and over, deep and hard with each thrust while immobilizing her body down the bed and hammering the bitch until she starts squirming... And you gonna tell him not to do that?! Get outta here! How about you reach a settlement: pay X amount of dollars as compensation or I'm leaving! Or withhold sex for three months. Or just leave.

          Pff, says she doesn't like civilized society. You wanna go around threatening people with violence and just get away with it? Let me tell you something, if civilization were to go to hell, you'd probably be the first one to go, your body dumped in a river Day 1.. and good luck finding the killer, doing some investigation with sticks and stones, and that guy playing with mud will be your forensic specialist hahahahaha. There's no justice in the wild, girl! Getting cheated on would be the least of your worries. So cut it with that jealousy dignity outrage bullshit!

          Tell me what's a girl that's opposite to that cause I'll be putting those attributes on my next Tinder profile ad let me tell you?!

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          • curious-bunny
            6 years ago

            Ok i can't awnser that as I'm unfamiliar with that word, I never once thought it's s healthy or good reaction just i know i would be tempted to. People generally don't react in the healthiest ways when stuff like that happens, Hah a I would never make a cake cake sucks but i get your point although the comparison is a little extreme, at this point I can't tell if your still talking about a kid or not, if I was ever unfortunate enough to have a kid I wouldn't care who he had sex with as long as he did it safely, and if your no longer using that analogy if your with someone and have sex with someone else your just a piece of shit who deserves whatever happens, unless it's an open relastionship or something where such activities are permissible. If it was the end of the world and I get cheated on 100% I would take my revolver and blow out his kneecaps. Call it what you will but I would enjoy it ever so much. Don't chest simple as that man, don't cause that kind of pain to someone. I have no remorse for people who cheat, it's as bad idk shooting kids to most of you frankly I don't give a shit about any of that but point being don't chest it's hurtful it's wrong and it's just rude

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            • curious-bunny
              6 years ago

              I like how your all so outraged yet your hiding behind anon, so frankly don't bother replying it will get ignored. Stand by your beliefs and like my boyfriend likes to say don't be a pussy. Your opinions are over top sane as mine. The difference being I'm not scared of what people think I stand by mine proudly. So frankly bugger off with your negativity when your to yellow to even show your name.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    I'd feel betrayed and disgusted, but it doesn't matter, because I would dump him of course.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    6 years ago

    @Tealights -- Okay you crossed the line one more time + have nothing substantial to answer with. Time to fuck off of my post!

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  • VieVieDD
    6 years ago

    It happened to me once, my brothers beat him so badly he needed physiotherapy afterwards.

    Morale of the story only cheat on woman without big brothers/cousins/overprotective male friends. Or expect your ass handed to you on a plate :-)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Let me first just attach the hashtag #ShitThatNeverHappened to that anecdote of yours!

      Second point, when there's a clear intent to cause potentially grievous bodily harm like that, that's called "aggravated assault", and there are laws against this. Just because that fictitious schmuck of that physiotherapy story doesn't know his rights and how to work the system to strike back doesn't mean I don't either! If I were to get my ribs broken, whoever did this would get his ass handed to him right back by the justice system, registered felon for life, at least a few months behind bars + fine to cover physiotherapy expenses and then some.

      Third, I have a gun --several guns, actually-- and know how to use it, so 'big' doesn't mean shit. Not only that, but I'm very familiar with my state's stand your ground laws, which means if I ever happen to lodge a bullet in your dumbass whiteknight cousin's brain as he tries to come at me (i.e. in self-defense), I'll get away with the greetings of the county sheriff.

      Fourth, I've gotten into fights, and let me just say that getting beat isn't that huge of a deal. It really isn't! Some folks get beat up for a living, fighters, boxers and the like. And guess what, they get over it. It heals, and you move on with your business.

      In summation, bitch, this is 21st-Century America with a justice system and where everyone has a gun. If you think fists have any weight in this equation, you got another thing coming! So all I can say is: bring it on bitches and watch your life go down the drain as you bump against a petty vindictive asshole, along with some of your hard-earned money on that ho cousin of yours before I dump her creep ass!

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  • Hotdogsaregross
    6 years ago

    Does she know that you refer to this relationship as
    I'm like in a "relationship".
    Or are you making her believe that it's something more serious.
    If she has been spending most nights at your place then she probably feels that it's more serious and I believe she would be really hurt if you do what you are about to do.
    Tell her that you are not committed to her, that you want to go hit on girls this Friday and possibly take one home. Problem solved.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Her moving with me has been more of a "deal". After seeing her for a few weeks, I suggested she stays at my place cause I needed someone to keep the home tidy and make the occasional meal, and also it's not far from her beauty school, which is what she does. And so she stays with me while I cover the home's expenses etc. And I got a girl around the house. And I like her, and have no intention of dumping her. So yeah technically it is a relationship. I just don't know if me cheating would ruin all of that. I might just do the thing you suggested.

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      • bob7
        6 years ago

        it will

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