What would you do

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I have had a FWB relationship with the same guy for ten years. I always wanted to be his girl, to make him happy and to help him take care of his kids. However he never remotely acted interested in me, until we started causally hooking up. I know being FWB causes all sorts of emotions to get involved especially after so much time. We spend countless hours, texting and talking. We stay up all night talking sometimes and we both enjoy the time we spend together. But I ultimately feel like I’m just that piece of “ass” and won’t ever be anything more. I don’t want to cut ties and say I’m done because then I know we probably won’t ever speak again. I worry that I wasn’t good enough to be seen in public with, but I’m good enough to screw on the side all the time. Trust me the sex is amazing or I wouldn’t be coming back after so long. What should I do?? Feelings are there for me, I get jealous when he talks about other girls, I always think he deserves better, but by better I mean me- yet he never tells me any different. We make out etc (some say FWB shouldn’t kiss or it causes other problems) could he have some sort of attachment to me and not want to admit it, or is it straight FWB???

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  • litelander8
    4 years ago

    You've got to tell him how you feel. Either end things and move on with your life or move forward together. Although, based on what you said, I think the latter is not going to go well.

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  • Jennifer21
    4 years ago

    If the sex is amazing, just enjoy being that “piece of ass”! Emotions and love won’t last. I read just the other day a wonderful little quote, “If I’m supposed to congratulate you on your marriage, shouldn’t you congratulate me on being able to fuck as many as I want as often as I want?” I try to live by that and so far it’s working out pretty good!

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  • Ellenna
    4 years ago

    If you've having that much contact with him as well as good sex, I don't see the problem. I've learned from the relationship I'm currently in (he's married) to enjoy our time together and not agonise over what I can't have.

    Oh dear, I guess I'm going to cop shit for being with a married man ... tough. I'm not breaking any promises or betraying anyone, of course he is but that's his decision. I didn't know he was married when we first got together 3 years ago (I didn't ask and he didn't tell until a one night stand turned into a long relationship) and in my long life it's the only time I've ever been involved with anyone, man or woman, married or in a relationship.

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  • d0esnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    Talk to him and figure it out. FWB are emotionally risky that's just how it is. I have never heard that they shouldn't kiss though that's silly, I always have and there's no reason it would matter if your having actual sex.

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