What would you do?

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My girlfriend is turning 27 in 5 days and I don't have anything to give her. I've been looking but I feel like she's too good for anything I could possibly pick out for her. I don't know if I should buy her a present, make her a present, take her out somewhere, or do something for her.

More info: She's artsy but girly. She likes makeup, video games, animals, painting, and clothes. She's a romantic but I'm not really good at that sort of thing and I get scared I'll overdo it because she has that thing about her that makes me overdo everything because she deserves the best.

I might even propose during her birthday celebration, but should I? We've been together for 4 years now and I am absolutely sure that she's the one. She's the love of my life and I want to make her my wife. But I'm scared she'll say no.

So which should I do?

Propose. She probably feels the same way. 19
Just get her a new outfit or paint set. 0
Take her out to her favorite restaurant. 4
Make her a homemade card and cake. 3
Other (explain in the comments) 3
Pamper her for the day and turn the house into a spa. 3
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  • Wrong
    7 years ago

    Dude, don't over think it! I can tell by your post that you have it together. You're a good person who's attracted another good person.

    Propose in a place that has meaning to both of you, and only both of you. Don't over think it. She loves you also.

    Congratulations!

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  • shorty295
    7 years ago

    Don't over think it. Proposal is the perfect gift. First take her out to a nice dinner and then afterwards got to a special place (one thats not crowded) and propose the shit outta her.

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  • NotAgain..
    7 years ago

    I said pamper her for the day and turn the place into a spa because this will make it even more likely she'll accept your proposal down the line..

    Proposing is good too because she might have been secretly wishing you'd propose to her for a while now since you've been together for 4 years. I'm sure that in itself would make a good gift but if you have any doubts then I suggest you take my first suggestion

    Those are my two cents on the matter

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  • rubbercock
    7 years ago

    Buy her a rubbercock!

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    Propose, but don't do it publicly: what if she hesitates or wants to wait to give you her answer? Don't put her on the spot like that.

    When you're falling asleep tonight, focus on the question of what she'd like from you for her birthday and see if you can dream the answer or wake up with it in the morning.

    Alternatively, ask a mutual friend or her sister or mother for suggestions: betcha they'll ask her and get back to you in time! Have you thought of a gift voucher for a day spa where she can be pampered? A friend of mine knew his partner wanted to improve her singing voice and bought her singing lessons. Does she want to learn to play a musical instrument or own one?

    Stop procrastinating though, or the day before her birthday you'll be panicking and end up buying her something crappy or inappropriate.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      She's a painter. She also writes incredible poems.

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    • StopDeletingMyAccounts
      7 years ago

      You never answered my question :( it was abt gardening
      Pls respond

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  • jeannie1993
    7 years ago

    or alternatively give her a 7 inch boner lol.

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  • CUNTFUCKER
    7 years ago

    Give her your 7 inch boner cock and nuts with a big bow wrapped around them.

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  • jeannie1993
    7 years ago

    talk to her and tell her that you can't imagine ever not being with her and see if she responds the same way, and if she does, that's the time to splash out on an engagement ring.
    as for her birthday, just spend the day with her doing all the things she enjoys doing most, then she'll know you've put a lot of thought into it.
    oh and make sure you buy her a nice prezzie as well, us girls do like thoughtful Men, but we also like nice prezzies too lol.

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  • ddrftw
    7 years ago

    Marriage is a life long commitment and are you financially stable to provide for her? It's good that you're thinking about having a future with her, but do you have goals for YOUR future?

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago

      Maybe she is going to provide for him? That's a question out of the 1950's!

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        7 years ago

        Her*. Gay marriage is legal in my state now. And I work to provide for us already. She's the stay at home wife at the moment.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Do a combination of the above choices.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      But which ones? Also, we live together as life partners and I take care of her. Not that I'm complaining about that. She takes care of me too by decreasing my stress levels after work, cooking for me, cleaning, and being easy to get along with and please. She's romantic too and she really has a way of making me feel so special and loved... so I kind of have been thinking about marriage since the first year we've been together.

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        Well, I can't make the choice for you.

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