What would make you reject a person as a romantic partner?

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What would make you reject someone if they confessed feelings for you?
Even if they were lovely and pretty or charming and attractive, what would put you off?

Not knowing them well enough 17
Having little or no mutual friends 3
Having only hung out with them in person a couple of times 2
If they confessed feelings too fast 9
Being into a completely different demographic than them 6
Having heard rumours about them, true or not. Just hearing them 2
If you already had someone else on your mind 22
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  • Frosties
    12 years ago

    That's one of the most complicated questions you can ask. The answer can be nearly anything.

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  • RinTin
    12 years ago

    This reminds me of a guy I know who met someone on a dating website and when they finally met she looked nothing like her picture. She used an old picture of when she was skinnier and she was really big when he met her. The fact that she lied about her appearance is enough reason for him to have stopped talking to her IMO. It also didn't help her that they went for lunch and she was debating ordering ribs.

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  • Imsupernormal
    12 years ago

    If they aren't willing to put out on the first date would be a major turn off.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    I think in some cases, when you're in the middle of dating someone, thats when you're learning more about them, and getting to know them better. So I felt like I couldn't choose not knowing them well enough. I mean, maybe I wouldn't if they were a complete stranger. Anyway, I just picked if I had someone else on my mind. I could never go through with someone else if my heart and mind were with someone else.

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  • Saycheese
    12 years ago

    There are too many answers to that actually like Frosties said.

    I guess I'm picky, but I've been around a lot of strange men that end up liking me more than a friend because I'm just nice to them and just myself.

    I know it would be nice to give a guy a chance but not when I'm not ready for one just need to focus on myself right now. Plus I'm moving back home with my parents for a year or so before moving out on my own which is about 3 hours away from the college I go to, too.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    The whole idea of having to contribute to someone else that I most likely don't like or will end up being bored with before the day has ended.

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    I'd say just incompatible.

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