What to do when stuck

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My husband and I have been together five years . hasn't felt real in year . Recently he puts me down. Non stopm told my son, I'm sorry you're mother is a bitch, and she opened her mouth . says being a stay at home mom is easy as shit, as he napoed all day. He recently a few months ago was laid off from cat. I just feel like he hates me. No respect. Barely sex . constant fights and insults. Just huge personality clashes over the past year or so. I have no money of my own. I've applied to so many even entry level jobs, no bites. I don't have an impressive resume. He's threatened to kick me out before. I just want security of some sort. I'm stuck inside with my kids all day and nigh . Weeks I don't even leave the house unless to drop my oldest off at school or grocery shop. He's even admitted he likes to fight with me. I'm yogi chajra chill type person.l,but I'm dying inside and just feel..stuck.

Move on he doesn't love you 10
He has his own issues , leave 11
Try to work it out 4
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  • Forestheart
    8 years ago

    I'm not telling you to do it, but if you divorce him the joke will be on him. Since he has a job he'll have to take care of the kids. Then both him and the kids will realize what you do for them. But then again I suppose you don't have a job. You could move to your parents house till you find one.

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    • Pittymama
      8 years ago

      Unfortunately my mother has passed and my step father moved. That's why I've stayed. Never want to take them to a shelter.

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      • Forestheart
        8 years ago

        I think if you try, you should be able to find a job. It doesn't have to be that fancy at first, just enough to get by should do, right?

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  • Pittymama
    8 years ago

    Oh, fun immature boys here. I have enough of that thanks. Genuinely seeking advice.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Hire a lawyer and divorce the shit head. Alimony should keep you in vittles till you find work.

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  • _Crusades
    8 years ago

    Didn't you start to notice bad signs regarding your husband before you decided to shit out a bunch of children?

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    • Pittymama
      8 years ago

      One was adopted by him. The other things had honestly been perfect. He was a very hard worker. Great income. Good dad. Nice. So no...nice phrasing regarding my children though.

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  • Pittymama
    8 years ago

    He was kicking me and my sons out fyi so he could drunk beer and not have responsibilities

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    • RoseIsabella
      8 years ago

      Leave him, take the kids and go to a shelter. Divorce him, he is a selfish piece of shit alcoholic.

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