What to do,she might cheat.

Ok i've been going out with this girl for 2 weeks,i've been over her house every day since we got together and i really like her alot and she feels the same way about me,last nite her ex boy friend who she was with for 3yrs in the past and they have a kid together but they haven't been together for 5 months,he phoned up telling her he's got no place to stay and she said he can move in with her.This mornining they were having beers together,i told her how i feel and she said there just friends and he needed help because he had no place to stay.I don't know what to do,we have so mutch in common,i like her alot,i feel so comfortable with her,i think she might be the one girl i've been praying for.Is that situatoin normal,cause i think she might cheat on me if there around each other every day,and drinking togther.

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  • rico30

    Just the fact she let him back says all.
    Move on.
    Just the fact that they are mates is enough to do your head in.
    If you like torture. Stay.

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  • samue1

    I would feel so jealous in that situation, for starters i wouldnt date a girl that had a child with someelse because there will always some sort of emotional connection with the ex.

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  • superguy99

    no, its just a friend, if she cared, she would break up with u, just wait it out

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  • Alaskaraven

    Can't say if it is normal or not. WHAT is normal? That you feel this way, or that she allowed him to move in? YES, it is normal for you to worry. You SHOULD. She is kidding herself, if not you...

    NO, it is not normal for someone that slept w/ someone for years to drink w/ them, have a child w/ them, live in the same house [no matter how temporary], and think nothing will ever happen.

    Hell, under those circumstances, one might end up in bed with an attractive stranger... people get lonely, and any port in a storm, much less one you have pulled into before.

    Distance yourself before you get your heart broken. If she thought you might be the one [like YOU feel], she would not have allowed it, KNOWING it would hurt you. And if the situation were reversed, would you have allowed it, knowing it could jeopardize this new relationship?

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  • dakaa

    not normal.

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  • dancer

    i'm guessing she's still raising her child and it's probably nice to have the dad around.

    it's normal to be worried. it also sounds like you really care about her...

    ok, this is where i was about to give you advice but now i see that people were commenting 2 years ago... so, what happened?

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  • erocablok

    Listen if shes dumb enough to move her ex in after you guys starting dating I would kick her to the curb.

    Theres plenty of other woman out there without children and ex's that need somewhere to live.

    I know this chick her name is K.I.M (keep it moving).

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  • joliegems

    If she has a kid why is she drinking beer in the morning? I would question her character as a mother. Doesn't she have a job?

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  • SHussein

    "We're just friends" I've heard this before, and it ends up being more than just friends. Two weeks is kinda short to get too serious though. But an ex- moving back in with her sounds like she still has feelings for him. one test: Do you get to sleep with her, her place or yours?

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  • tornwithin

    oh my thats ridiculous. somethings going on they were together for that long and it doesnt take 5 months to get over the person she obviously still wants him around and she didnt care to ask u if it was alrite and im sure he has other places he can stay if she doesnt care to be with him u guys could find a place for him if she doesnt want him to leave sumins up...

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  • Pretentiouscandy

    sorry but the fact she's drinking beer in the morning sounds more of a problem.

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  • Ballz_deep

    Whoop his Fucking ass he has no right to mess with your girl thats not his girl nemore so he can sleep his sorry ass outside somewhere

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  • xxCHUBBYBUNNY

    I'd be REALLY pissed.
    Tell he to stop being a pussy bitch and go find somewhere else to stay.
    You have every right to feel the way you do, especially if they're drinking together.
    Drunk-ness causes problems.

    I'm sorry hon, hope things work out =[

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  • RoughRider429

    kick his ass no need to be rational

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  • gawkyporcupine

    yeah nodo , i noticed that
    i prefer being alone when drinking in morning
    this woman is weird

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  • DoonDoon

    you are in a very bad situation if you fall for this girl. I would advise you to find someone else.

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  • Nodo_TheRanter

    "This mornining they were having beers together"

    Did no one notice anything weird with this sentence?

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    • JMDude

      Its called a typo you douche. Damn! Were you picked on as a child or something?!

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    • No kidding - hit me like - "duh!"

      To the poster: your problem isn't this girl (who hits the booze first thing a.m.) - she's got plenty of trouble in her life & I feel for that child. Your problem is your lack of judgement about this woman.

      You should definitely trust your doubts here & move on and give yourself a chance.

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  • pooponyou

    Dude, she's blowin' him behind your back. Don't be naive, you've been with her for 2 weeks and she was with him for probably atleast a year or so, the bond between her and him is definately much stronger, no matter how badly you wish otherwise. Women are strange like that, they will be done with a long-term relationship one minute, jump right back into another relationship and then the "ex" will always find a way back into her life one way or the other.

    My sister-in-law did this with her husband of 5 years. He was in Iraq for over a year and she decided that she was tired of being alone all the time. She got with another guy, pretty seriously in fact. Well, her ex came back from Iraq and they have a kid together, so she took her son over to see his dad and they ended up fuc*ing. She still hasn't told her current b/f about it. This could be you dude, watch-out.

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  • justincase858

    dont play chess with cheaters, the pieces are never where you fucking left them seriously

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  • INeedToGoWeeWee

    You have a good mind to be unsure, but if they have a child together, then they have to stay in contact anyway. Try and trust her, but if you cant them she might not be the girl you have been praying for if you cant trsut her.

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  • MightOfTheMass

    Tell him to fuck off out of the house, if he doesnt, kill him.

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  • CuteStrawberry

    you have a good reason to feel insecure. i don't think its right for them to be living with eachother if you two are officially dating. obviously they had a kid together and had a really long relationship before so it had to be serious. she shouldve taken your feelings into account too. you really don't know what they do together when you're not there but i guess all you can do is trust her.

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