What the hell is wrong with my friends? or is it me?

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I have some friends. And...I don't know if I am not normal or THEY are not normal...there's one friend that is really hardworking and smart. So, I complimented her. I mean, every word I said to her was sincere but she really didn't like me complimenting her and told me to stop it, as if she was uncomfortable with my compliments.
Another friend I have, she is nice to me, mostly. But I hear from other friends that she doesn't like me or doesn't like who I am blah blah blah... I sometimes doubt her kindness.
Again another friend, she is like, when she's in a bad mood, she can be a bit mean to people. So it's like she can spoil others' moods but doesn't like others to spoil her mood? what the hell is this? Am I really with good friends? I sometimes don't understand my friends.
Am I just being abnormal and weird to think about all these things or are they?

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    Its called being a teenage girl. Sucks.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Trust yourself & your judgement. Your friends can't be perfect. And it might help to tell them how you feel (reproached for paying sincere compliments, don't like to be the target of negative gossip). But these are things that you are right to be concerned about and maybe need friends more in tune with your values and personality.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I don't like compliments either, she was probably just embarassed so she's normal.

    The second one is a "frenemy" for lack of a better term, but you can't believe what other people tell you. She might bitch about you behind your back or she might not, it depends on what you want to believe of her.

    The third, well she's in a bad mood, she's gonna be snappy and mean >.>

    Doesn't mean it's right of course but welcome to the complex world of humans.

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  • Thatguy777
    13 years ago

    You have a bunch of bipolar friends.

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  • WarInSilencex
    13 years ago

    Find some better friends that make you happy and treat you well. You deserve it.

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  • SillyKitty55
    13 years ago

    drop them and find new honest sincere friends like i have also done

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  • cheesey_jelly
    13 years ago

    First one is normal. I don't like being complimented. But the other two are not true friends. There is certainly nothing wrong with you. It's life. We are human. Sometimes we're mean, nice, whatever. It all depends on your trust in your friends.

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  • alied123456
    13 years ago

    lol sounds familiar ... my friends are just like that , your probably the nice one in the group ;P

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    the compliment friend is normal, and you should keep her. as strange as it sounds, alot of people dont like to be told how great they are at something. im one of them. but the other two sound kind of obnoxious . . .

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  • DivineDeception
    13 years ago

    Plus it's muuuch easier to lie and manipulate through a text. Just saying. Oh, and good luck. I hope I hope helped. But when I lost my money I lost 3/4 of my friends, it was painful, not to mention unfair. I hate seeing other people's trust being betrayed as well.

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  • DivineDeception
    13 years ago

    Entirely abnormal, in my opinion -- they're not being very honest or real. You've got some bipolar friends, haha! Make some new ones, no offense; I've just been in this situation on many ocassions. I have to do this quite often, a honest, loyal and sincere friend is very uncommon nowadays, with Facebook and such rising in popularity, people have forgotten the importance of mutual respect and often overlook kindness. Plus with how mainstream texting is, nobody can hold an intelligent conversation.

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