What step to take next ?

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So I got talking to someone via a dating app and I added them on snapchat we didn’t speak much and it fizzled out, I stayed on the app and a few months passed and I got talking to the guy again Conor... he’s really handsome and I fancy him a lot now... we chat but unlike my previous boyfriend (at the beginning before we were official) he barely messages... he’ll just stop and I think oh he will pick up later but he doesn’t.. i quizzed him and he said he is interested.. in fact I got quite annoyed that he doesn’t make effort I thought I was wasting my time but I like the boy... he said his passed relationships failed because he was too busy. We have sort of arrange to meet this Friday but he never picks up the convo first.. it’s me who makes the effort.. I feel like just leaving him alone and seeing what happens before Friday... but I like him but while I’m sat waiting for him to message or while we could be talking I’m loosing interest .. I know snapchat is shit for talking on but I don’t want to ask for his number or Facebook I want him to make the move!

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  • nikkiclaire
    5 years ago

    What exactly do you like about him? The stress and drama he is causing? Pssh lose him.

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    • RoseIsabella
      5 years ago

      She likes him, because he's good looking. HAHAHA! 😂

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        5 years ago

        Thanks for assuming I’m a she

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        • RoseIsabella
          5 years ago

          Hey, I do what I can. 🤓

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      • nikkiclaire
        5 years ago

        Hehe, I totally missed that oops.

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        • RoseIsabella
          5 years ago

          😆

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  • xxLucifer
    5 years ago

    Some guys just aren't comfortable with making the first move. If you like him then just tell him that.

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  • Dembai
    5 years ago

    I'm torn about this because my husband is the same way a d I just gave up and persued him. And yes I'm a girl, but I generally didn't care. He remained plenty clueless about initiating things until this day...ten years of marriage.

    But I know the life of doing a fair bit of work for what you like can be a whole lot of work and pretty unfun.

    So I'd say, find out his feelings. Some dudes just don't care. My husband does but he also lacks knowledge of when to do something out of the blue and so fails at it often. He does try pretty hard at times...but still fails. It's adorable to me.

    Be bombastic if you really want to pursue him. If he just treats you like crap or calls things off then you know it isn't shyness or awkwardness...just a douche who couldn't be bothered to let you down properly.

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  • cipro
    5 years ago

    Try sexting

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