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My boyfriend works from 8am-5pm on a building site, we barely spend any time together anymore because he’s always up before me at 6am and goes to bed early as he wakes up early for work. Every weekend he takes cocaine and goes out drinking, he barely spends any time with me, even though he claims that he does, but what he doesn’t realise that sitting in the same room as me whilst he’s on his phone isn’t spending time with me, he doesn’t work Saturdays or Sundays but I do, so whilst I’ve been at work today 6am-4pm he has been doing cocaine and drinking from 9:45am this morning!! tonight I asked him to stay in with me, but because it’s a Saturday he said he wants to go out drinking with his mates, he said some really harsh things to me so I slapped him, he called me a nasty cunt and that I always control what he’s doing and that he was going out wether I came with him or not. I always put him first but I feel like I don’t even get half of his efforts..

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  • AntiArchon
    6 years ago

    I was in the same exact situation as you minus the cocaine. Sounds like your with a narcissist. Time to cut him out of your life, trust me.. they never change and all your time, efforts and emotions will just go to waste.. he might even escalate to hitting you when you show justified anger coz your sanity gets erroded by his constant neglect and gaslighting.. even without the coke he's still a disordered person who is not capable of true empathy and unconditional love. LEAVE

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  • Ellenna
    6 years ago

    I see no point whatsoever in this relationship and if I were you I'd get out of it as soon as you can. It's obvious his mates and his phone and cocaine and alcohol are far more important to him than you are, so why hang around?

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  • S12207
    6 years ago

    Do you think he will stop doing blow? If not walk away.

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