What should i say or do to him?, he wont let me break up with him.

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In my life, everything was perfect, till i met this guy, We were just friends for a couple weeks, then he asked me to go out with him, then he asked me to be his girlfriend, he was very sweet at first, but now, hes just so different, not the guy i was expecting to go out with, anyways, we been dating for 4 months almost 5 just in a couple days, and i think he doesnt want me anymore, but when i say *Is it time to let go?*, he says * Never*, but i get hurt that when i call him he gets mad cause its a wrong time or when he asks me chill with him, we're Face to face but we dont see eye to eye D: , It feels like hes not the right guy for me, but deep down inside of me, i can still here him say *I love you* on our 3rd month anniversary and i just burst out of feelings in me for him, i thought he meant it, but is it too early to say *I love you?*, and now i regret meeting him, i try to dump him buthe ignores me, and he doesnt treat me like a girlfriend anymore...and i feel like im obsessing over him, i need something to do, i need a habit, but all i do, is jog,Write Music, and lay in bed, theres nothing i cant do to get him outta my mind like if i should dump him or not. If i say, Do you really need me? and hes like *yes, and starting to be nice, but when he forgets, he goes back to being a jerk. and it hurts when he ignores me, and sometimes i feel like im suffocating him when im around him, Do i need to change who i am? not for him, for me because it feels like its all my fault :/ .

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  • DannyKanes
    13 years ago

    Oh just dump him already

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  • theocean
    13 years ago

    I am that kind of guy too. Dump him, we never change we just cycle back and forth

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  • anya07
    13 years ago

    No you dont need to change yourslef.Always be yourself lov and respect you the way you are.Its his problem.He really doesnt deserve you.Move on you deserve better one than this jerk.I know its hard but you must do your best get him out your mind.Focus on something like career or hobby.Go out,have fun.live baby

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  • LuffySp
    13 years ago

    I think you're begging for trouble. It almost seems like you want attention. Look, he doesn't respect you and he's acting stalker-ish. Move on. YOu don't want that.

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  • dummyme74
    13 years ago

    He is playing with your feelings. He kind of feel he owes u something (maybe you did him a big favor?) and that's why he is nice to you sometimes. If you continue with him this will affect your self esteem and you will lose any value you have as a woman. Be strong and leave him, but make sure you dont go back if he tries to "work things out" Best Wishes

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  • Girsgirl52
    13 years ago

    I had something so similar to this happen to me recently. My boyfriend (at the time, my ex now) and I were miserable for probably.. 5 or 6 months. When I would try to talk to him about it he would get sweet and say things would be better, but they weren't. I was completely miserable, and he acted like he hated me. Trust me, I wish I hadn't wasted all those months. I wish I'd just dumped him when I realized it was over. The fact you think about him doesn't mean anything, you'll probably keep thinking about him after it's over for a while but before you know it you'll be living your life again. You'll still think about him, but it will be less everyday and you'll find other things to do with your time and your life. Don't waste either of your time, you aren't happy, so he probably isn't either no matter what he says. Just dump him. And it is NOT your fault. Some people just can't handle relationships or act like a decent human being.

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  • Mk4900
    8 years ago

    So you seem fairly young and you should not have to change yourself for anyone. 2nd, It seems that there is a lack of communication in your relationship and he seems to only want you when it convenient. Drop him like a hot rock and I'm sure that you will find a new special someone soon.

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  • bucho's_butt
    8 years ago

    Seeing the way people write on the internet is like nails on a chalk board. God help us all with this generation.

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    What do u mean he won't let u dump him? U don't need his approval to dip out. If he isn't treating u right and he won't listen to what y have to say, there's absolutely nothing u can do but wait and hope that some day hell come to his senses and flip over. But trust me. It'll be a long, arduous, fight filled wait. Don't stress out about the things and people u can't control.

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    he play a lot of computer games?

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