What should i do with my boyfriend's...

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My boyfriend of 8 yrs has a computer- it's his LIFE. That's what he used to cheat on me several times and film it, etc etc.. He also has his Facebook game that is his life. Well, one of the requirements to me taking him back was that he would "let me have his computer.. everything."
But I don't feel that now he lives with me, and is on his computer ALLL day, that bringing it here and letting me go thru it was enough..
SO NOW THE DECISION IS UP TO YOU!

leave him, let him keep it 48
leave him, keep computer 17
Break It 23
Let him still use it 19
install spyware to monitor him 16
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  • kelili
    11 years ago | pl

    He has cheated on you several times and you don't know what to do?

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    The computer is not the problem it's him and the fact that you're taking him back. Dump him and find a better man.

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  • nightmare28
    11 years ago

    I don't understand how can someone use a computer to cheat, I prefer to use my penis.

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    • bosslady714
      11 years ago

      He did. He just used the comp to FIND the broads to stick his penis in.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Smash his computer smash his nuts just go crazy.

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  • Happy_PoopSmear
    10 years ago

    Maybe if you weren't such a shitty lay, he wouldn't have to cheat, dumbass

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      If I were such a shitty "lay", why did he cry, beg, and plead to have me back? Going as far as to losing one of his bestfriends he's known all his life just to make shit right with me? Answer that dipshit.

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  • JMont
    11 years ago

    You obviously have some emotional problems if you're still with a guy after he cheated on you multiple times. But, since you have taken him back he will just keep cheating on you. Why? because he can! He won't stop, and thinking he will, or thinking its because of the computer is delusional. It may be tough breaking up and moving on, but it needs to be done.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      For 1) We've been together off and on for eight years.
      2) I have cheated in the past, but only after he had done it to me- but who did it 1st is irrelevant.
      3) I have stabbed him 3 times b4, once being in the forehead.. so the consequences are pretty bad.
      4) I never said he cheated BECAUSE of the comp.
      5) I don't know if you've ever been in a relationship for 8+ yrs, or a turbulent one at that; but just breaking up and moving on is a lot tougher than you could possibly imagine.
      ...Plus, I like to break sh*t... and besides, the comp is a piece of crap.

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      • JMont
        11 years ago

        Think about it logically, if you have been off and on for 8 years, will it ever get better? Do you think it gets any easier as a relationship progresses? Ask any couples that have been together for 15+ years. If you have had that turbulent of a relationship just during dating, which is the easiest part of a relationship, then anything further is most likely going to be disastrous. I didn't say it would be easy, but from your description it doesn't sound like you two really care about each other. From an outside point of view, staying together because of how long you've been together isn't enough justification to carry on with such a damaging relationship.

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  • NorthC
    11 years ago

    Either break it and see how he feels.. OR.. keep it.. Use it and change the password.. Everything.. Encode it too.

    Or.. If he's that attached. Leave him.. and let it be.

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  • NotStrangeBird
    11 years ago

    Hook it up to 440 volts and see if it runs 4 times as well.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    11 years ago

    Break the computer and break up with him.

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    Just break up with him, man. The computer is innocent!

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    • OswaldCobblepot
      11 years ago

      I agree. Dump his ass, and leave the poor computer out of it. Well… maybe take it with you when you leave; that'd be pretty funny.

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