What should i do love advice please

There's this new guy in town who's just my type. Like he fits perfectly everyone of my expectations. He's nice, he's really good looking, he's fit, he's "good" (not a manwhore), etc. So basically I'm nuts for him. And I met him once at a party he asked me my name blah blah blah then I saw him one other time and he remembered me but he wasn't sure about my name or whatever but he remember my face. The thing is he is so perfect that almost every girl likes him. So there's a lot of "competition", and some of the girls are really really beautiful. I'm pretty hot too and I have a nice body but some of these girls are superior in other aspects like older, or they know him more than I do, or they have past, or whatever. So I'm not sure if I should just let it go or... ADVICE PLEASE!!

Fuck the other bitches, try to get him! 61
Try to become her friend at least 13
Forget it, too complicated 8
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  • Sensate

    1. girls who've known him longer or know him better are at a disadvantage to you, never forget it. A guy is much more interested in someone who'se new and fresh then some bitch who has been playing around with him for a while and hasnt had the balls/ovaries to make a move. they just complicate things.

    2. He's interested in you but you are still a mystery to him since you don't really know eachother that well. Again this gives you an advantage

    3. Being older or "knowing more/more experienced" is almost never a positive thing to a guy. He's gonna feel much more comfortable if you give him the feeling he is in the lead and he is the experienced one. Most men do.

    4. Stop being a pussy and make an advance. We don't live in the middle ages where proper ladies should wait 'till they get an invite/request from the guy. If you are sure enough you are hot and he's in to you, then you have no reason to wait. Fuck the other bitches.

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    • That's all great advice, thanks :)
      I saw him today at another party. I talked to him a little and I realized he's actually quite shy, which is a good thing because it makes him more approachable. Yay

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      • Sensate

        Guys like to pretend otherwise...but alot of them are actually very shy...I know I am. But I onloy admit to this on the internet :D
        Good luck to you and your future endeavors!

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  • auburnsin

    I say go for it. There may be other gals aiming for him but you have the advantage of mystery. Dont be shy, be upfront persuade him alittle if needed. My gal was in a relationship when I became her trainer. Long story short she ended it with the guy and informed me immediatly. How you may ask? She kissed me as i was training her. Nothing more flattering to a guy when the gal steps up to plate and informs him of her intentions.
    In my case we've been together for 1 yr and 6 months and we're getting married in December. Step up girl you got this! Best of luck!

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  • ProseAthlete

    I really don't get this question. Why does it matter what other women are around him? If he's interested in you, he might as well be surrounded by old men and cattle for all the attention they'll get from him. You'll only know that he's interested in you, though, if you go for it.

    Love isn't a zero-sum game, by the way, and it isn't a competition. Well, okay, it's kind of a competition, but everyone has their own unique internal set of rules that are always changing. Just because you think some of these other women around him are gorgeous doesn't mean they're his type. Maybe you're exactly his type. Maybe he isn't superficial and doesn't really have a set type but goes for personality and sense of humor. Maybe he's already dated some of them and doesn't want to go back there.

    You don't know until you try. :)

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  • shuggy-chan

    Grab his peen

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    • Johnnytherat

      i second this grab it like you would a life vest on the titanic

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      • Shackleford96

        Who the fuck told you to make me laugh? Hmmm?

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      • BloodRedAndTrue

        not too hard, because she'll crush it and get sued

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        • Anime7

          That'd be a pretty hilarious lawsuit.

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  • ucipher8

    I think i can relate. I was crushing on someone recently that was pulling at all my (male) maternal instincts AND, had a smile and activities to match with my own on some level.

    I tried, didn't exactly get shot down but i keep feeling like I'm stepping in territory that i don't belong. She probably has a boyfriend/girlfriend (who knows these days) or probably already married or probably still thinking about someone else/involved with somebody else.

    I want to say, tell him how you feel and see how he responds? Don't get your hopes up but, if you really like him i don't think there is harm in One casual date or conversation.

    Is there an age difference? I would normally be concerned about age because i wouldn't want my husband/wife to die and leave me alone. Then again, maybe you two are just that compatible?

    Put the crush aside and see if you are, build the relationship based on that. If there is an age difference, don't let his judgement get the better you, your father might say that to you.

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  • ants91shearer

    hey its me from the party, me steve is this really you?

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  • keef

    Fuck the other bitches! Haha really though, go for it. Take one little step out of your comfort zone and ask him to do something. There will always be other girls in the world, forget about them. Go fooor iiitttttt!

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