What should i do in this situation??

We met in uni and she liked me.. we met hours before class, at lunch/dinner, scribble in each other's notes etc...months later when I realized and told her I like her it was too late. She was distant, it took me 5 months to get her to come out again - despite her telling me she doesnt feel it anymore and that Im better with another girl. We went for dinner finally and had a good time. A few weeks later, I made her flowers in her fav color... she loved them and put it up in her work. I might be too immature and rushed it... she says the 'platonic friends' and sorry for making me feel this way. I told her I cant be friends... then she gets mad at me - she said she isnt going to date for a long time, and that she hates this place. I asked her if I can help I was worried, she says lol no you cant,no more drama and told me to leave her alone. I would msg her occasionally to see how she was doing. In Dec When she replied, I said something stupid again.... Then a few months later I got her a gift to apologize, I took a pic and sent to her and to see how she was, she says no more, please just stop.

I dont know what to do.... I just want to talk to her again... her birthday is coming up in a month. I have a gift for her from my trip. She wont pick up my call and if I msg her she doesnt reply. She doesnt have facebook or anything. What should I do?? I miss talking to her..How can I fix this??

Leave her alone 33
Text her once a month, let her know I still care 2
Send her the gift pic on her bday, dont text until bday 7
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Comments ( 9 )
  • thegypsysailor

    Leave the poor girl alone. She has made it perfectly clear numerous times, if I read this right, that she wants nothing to do with you. Give the damn gift to a homeless person and MOVE ON.
    You are very close to becoming a stalker, you do know that don't you?

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  • Jeaneathean

    It's difficult, but I think you need to leave things alone, my friend.

    There will be others, believe me.

    If she wants to contact you, she will do. You are making this a great deal less likely by bothering her.

    She knows how you feel and, at the risk of sounding harsh, you know how she feels as well don't you, really?

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  • megadriver

    If she doesn't want you any more, leave her be.
    Plenty of other fish in the sea...

    If a woman really likes you, she will contact you!
    Girls go crazy over the guy they love. They show it in many ways.
    Don't be the guy that falls down on his knees, just to get her attention.

    Move on.

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  • Leave her alone. Jesus Christ.

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  • echopure

    hmm i guess we'll never know what happen/why. ill leave her alone thank you for the help

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  • Crusades

    She wants you. Be more persistent. Call her more. Give her more gifts. Visit her very often. Say how sorry you are.

    lol

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  • echopure

    Should I least say happy bday? I know I should give her space but I dont know why she was so mad and why she said the drama thing thats all

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    • Definitely do not use her birthday as an excuse to talk to her---which is something she explicitly told you she doesn't want to do.

      Respect her wishes, if you care at all about her feelings.

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    • Jeaneathean

      No.

      Let her alone.

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