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I think he likes me back but he just doesn't want to ruin our friendship or his relationship with the other girl...
| he doesnt like you if he has a girlfriend | 73 | |
| you should go seek out his girlfriend and kill her | 30 | |
| try TELLING him you like him back and he might dump her | 61 | |
| you should wait for him to come through on his own time | 132 | |
| ASK HIM OUT! | 9 |
I find it irritating how girls are constantly like "omg cheating is wrong how can you dump your girlfriend for this new girl" and yet the girls are the ones who always make things like this. Its like girls think cheating is bad only if they arent doing it but if they are wanting to o it then no one should complain. He has a girlfriend dont invade their life.
Exactly.
Many women don't stop to realize... if he cheats on her with you, what's to stop him from cheating on you too?
Hell even adults don't always think about it. I knew one woman who was dating a married man... then he started cheating on HER too.
But what do you expect... the man's a cheater.
If he's meant to be with you, the time will eventually be right.
If he's willing to dump his girlfriend for you, then he is clearly unfaithful and not worth your time - and if I was his ex, I wouldn't take him back either.
GREAT IDEA: Have him cheat on his girlfriend with you. Then once you're his girlfriend he'll cheat on your with another girl.
let it be. if he wants to be with you bad enough, he'll leave the one he's with. if he stays with her, then accept the fact that he loves her and not you. do not interfere; karma is a bitch.
Love is hard and complicated. Verry beautifull tho. Aslong as you stay true to you it will be alright.
No matter how many good qualities he has, the only bad thing is that he isn't in love with you. Get it? A guy can like a woman easily, but that doesn't mean he loves her.
Leave them alone please, I would hate to be that other girl in this situation. When someones already got a partner, back off. You can find someone else, you wont be heartbroken but they sure will.
U should wait, If you an him were meant for each other it will happen, but there is nothing beautiful in deliberately trying to destroy someone else's relationship
You should forget about him. Chances are this guy only wants some ass. You're better than that. He may be the nicest and sweetest guy you have ever met, but if he wants to keep his girlfriend and still lead you on like he is now, he's not worth your time.
clearly she's not "better than that" because if she was she wouldnt be trying to go after a guy who's already in a relationship
Clearly she doesn't know what to do and hasn't tried going after him, thus her IIN post asking what she should do. Perhaps she just hasn't realized she IS better than that.
Clearly if she's going out of her way to ask this question she has interest in pursuing this man if he was interested in her. If she didnt, she wouldnt have even posted this. Think about it. I know homewreckers all too well lady.
Clearly she's going out of her way to ask this question because she's asking for help on the situation. It can't get clearer than that. The boy is confusing her and she doesn't know what's good for her. She may have interest in this boy, but she has no interest in ruining his relationship with his current girlfriend. She's asking for help, and I'm telling her to forget about him and move on. You may know all about homewreckers child, but you don't know shit about preventing one.
The fact that she put choices like "ask him out" and "kill the girlfriend" shows me the underlying feelings of the situation. All of the possible choices, except for one, support possible relations between them. She is looking for reassurance to move forward with this boy. If I was in the same situation the solution would be clear for me since I'm not the homewrecking kind, move on and don't worry about him because he's TAKEN. You shouldn't have to ask any other questions once you know this guy is taken. If you are the slit who created this poll, you should be ashamed of yourself and stop pretending like you're innocent. As I said before, I see right through your kind. The number one act that most homewreckers use is "I have no intention of ruining the relationship" because then it makes the other person who is in a relationship feel like they aren't possibly cheating on their significant other. Then you slowly swoop in. Please lady, save it.
i would tell him anyways, and one day when shit dont go well to him, he will have on the back of his mind how things would have been with you.
Haha, I went after the guy I liked while he has his 4 year gf, she knew but didn't do anything about it.
I do not think that it is cool to take someone elses man. There are plenty of men to pick from. If he is in a unhappy relationship, then it most likely won't last anyway. I had a mad crush on my husband when we met. We were both in relationships though. One day we seen each other at a mutual friends house, and we both had broke off our relationships from before. If it is meant to be, then it will happen. If not, then you will meet the one. It is not a nice place to be if you are the one who has a boyfriend who is cheating on you with someone else. It causes a lot of pain to someone else. And if you did get with him, what makes you think that he would not leave you for someone if he left his girlfriend for you. That is something that has just happened to one of my close friends. Carma is a bitch. Trust me!
If he already has a girlfriend, and you have to be single to be "available" ( unless you like cheaters?) then it's rather obvious....besides, liking him isnt Rly a good enough reason to be chasing after someone elses boyfriend, makes one look bit *cough* desperate *cough*......but I judge none lol sooo, I will just say this..
Shame to all those who suggested she wait around for this guy like a sad puppy...now how does she look if this guy Rly likes his current girlfriend, and NEVER, comes around? Lol w.e you do, don't do that, you'll just end up looking silly in the end, because in all honesty..if he didn't like her, he wouldn't be with her.....given, she may be keeping him hostage at gunpoint? :P but that's not likely
@ JoeyAnne
Yeah I responded to your DUMBASS comment, and what? Like I said, you contradicted yourself, I aint about to write out how you did again cuz clearly your retarded simple minded ass was too stupid to understand it the first time. And how in the hell does this situation have ANY thing to do with "feeling threatened by any woman within range"? Bitch do you know how dumb and random that statement was. Just throwing out random shit that you can't even explain cuz you're mad that you're ass got schooled online. Bitch, dont get mad because I know a thing or two about life, get an education and better yourself instead.
I'm pretty sure I didnt give you a life story either just because I told you I've known women like that firsthand. Did I actually tell you a story about them? I'll give your dumbass a second to re-read my response.....tick.....tick.....tick.....ok, times up. No. I didnt. So stop saying stupid shit that doesn't even apply, you're making yourself look even dumber than before, which is pretty bad. Lastly, the fact you told me to go find some dick tells me that you're the one who needs to do that. Clearly if dick pops into your mind, you aint gettin it. So take your own advice and get right on that. I wish you the best of luck, because a bitch like you needs it.