What should i do, and how do i do it?

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I have autism (so I have difficulty communicating. It is not that I can't communicate well, I can, but I am really nervous to do so with people who are not my closest friends.) Anyway, I have never had a girlfriend, so this makes getting one difficult, as don't have any experience. I like this girl I know, but she has a boyfriend, making me question if I should even try and how to go about getting her to like me.

(PS if you make fun of me for having autism, you can suck my balls)

Do nothing, she has a boyfriend. 30
Do something, say in the comments. 10
You should hate yourself because you have autism. (JK) 8
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  • Unimportant
    9 years ago

    "There is always a girl out there who likes you." -

    So shamelessly untrue.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    There is always a girl out there who likes you. Be aware of those around you and try and figure out who she is. It's so much easier to be with someone who likes you, rather than chase someone who wants nothing to do with you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    You certainly should not get between their relationship. I suggest forgetting about getting with her and find other girls. Dont obsess over any one in particular either. Since you have no girlfriend experience I suggest expanding your female friend group. A good way to do this is find online groups based on your interests and go to group activities to make friends, expand your social network with guys as well because the more people you know, the better. You have to put effort into hanging out with them as well. There are also autism support sites on facebook and forums such as wrongplanet where you can meet friends who also have autism. I have autism as well and have figured out the whole friend making thing. Dating is still a bit challenging for me but thats because I do not understand other peoples feelings well. Good luck.

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  • slings_and_arrows
    9 years ago

    It depends whether she is serious with this boyfriend.

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