What should i do and f@$king hate myself?

I'm not a virgin anymore and I am in love but my girlfriend is transgender. My family and friends aren't all that open and I'm afraid that they will cut me off but I wish that I could introduce her to them. I hate that I have to lie why is it that some people are so close minded!? I don't know what to do I'm both happy that I finally found someone who lessons to me and loves me for me but I'm also full of self doubt. I love my family I grew up with my friends and see them as family and I don't want to lose them. Am I being selfish am I in the wrong I wouldn't care what they think of me but I don't want to hurt them.

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  • SwickDinging

    Don't tell them. If she's done a good job they won't notice anyway. If they do question it then just deny it. They have no way of proving anything unless they do something illegal.

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  • MasterChives

    Ooooh snap I love controversy!

    Ok ok.. solution time.

    Don’t furkin tell em!

    I mean if your girlfriend looks enough like a girl then just don’t tell them. I mean technically she is a “she” now and not a dude bro.

    So just be all like “yeah check out my gf mom and dad” and if the dad starts getting that suspicious look just change subject.

    However if your family ask any questions like (hillbilly voice) “hey boy, aint that so called fee-male one of them transgender types?” you can just be all like “Nope definitely not pa”.

    All of lifes problems can be avoided by lying..

    But if your gf looks hella mannish, beard and shit and just put on like high heels and a skirt. You fucked!

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

    Just dont introduce them yet. Chances are yall wont last very long. Might as well not even bring it up until you're for sure yall are together for the long run.

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  • palehorse

    Don't tell them.

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